Its been a few months where I've been playing dumb, as if I don't know what's going on. She's changed, & also she's been lying a lot. But like I said, i been playing dumb and sh**! But yeah, I realize that she's with 2 other guys right now, and those guys don't know that she's been with me.
I finally told her that our boyfriend/girlfriend status is over because I felt that she needed time to herself. But actually I wanted it off because I knew she had a Guilt trip deep down. But the thing is, she now thinks i'm dumb because she still thinks I dont know about her cheating situation and all her fu*%$* lies. This sh** is killing me inside, I still love and care about her, I guess this is what I get for being so fu&ken nice! She says she loves me, but I don't believe it, because my gut tells me she's lying.
Im the type to forgive, but never forget, I dont think she'll ever confess, i'm not sure if I should even be her friend as well. Not quite sure how to approach this nasty situation...
2006-08-27 04:23:23 · 5 answers · asked by Jason 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take 2 months with absolutely no contact between the two of you. If you still want to be friends, then try. However, some ended relationships are never meant to be repaired into a friendship.
2006-08-27 04:29:30 · answer #1 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone and take time to heal. Find something to do-anything that can make you smile, laugh. But, not matter what, don't deal with her- no calls, no in-persons! Its best to leave this situation as far behind you as possible. BTW< being a nice guy is not wrong or bad. It just means sometimes you've picked the wrong person. Trust me, there is someone for everyone and that girl who can love you for all the sweet things you are is just around the corner. You just need to clear your head first from this last relationship or lack thereof.
2006-08-27 04:38:43 · answer #2 · answered by hellokittyt012263 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right, she probably won't confess to you about her uhm... other life she's leading.
Don't say that! Don't beat yourself up because you were 'too nice' and that you cared for her and everything. I mean, seriuosly what would a guy in yoursituation do if his girl was on a cheating spree? IF i were in your shoes, I woulda asked her about it! Confront her right then and there and demand the truth. If she doesn't give you just that then she isn't worth your time. You deserve better because no one deserves to get hurt in any way. You'll find someone who will be open to you loves you for who you are and don't keep you out from her life.
To go about your situation.. I say try to resolve this. Go talk to her and see what's up. You probably did hurt her for breaking up with her but i mean she does have like two other guys =P
You're better than that. Move on!
2006-08-27 04:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by lovergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can forgive but NOT forget... then I'd say even as much as you think you love her right now; you will NEVER trust her again and you can't have a good relationship with someoen you can't trust! Especially if she hasn't come clean on her own!
2006-08-27 04:33:59 · answer #4 · answered by Amy E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... ur in exactly same situation as i was 6 months back.. except my guy did this.m frgivin type like u..beliv me m tellin u from experience u'l never b able to trust her again.even if she changes which has slim chances. buddy ur mind wil go crazy if u stay wit her cuz u'l alwez be thinkin is she wit someone else right now? how wld u know...it wil be very complicated n ruin ur days. if u want jus be a casual frnd to her ..hi-hello tats it. u deserve someone like u..sweet n caring.dun let her take advantage of it
2006-08-27 04:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋