is it wrong to like a girl that already has a bf? i know she likes me and i kinda want to ask her out so she will dump the other guy! is that wrong to do???
2006-08-27 04:22:46 · 24 answers · asked by nate_n_s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why dont you wait until she dumps him and then make your move ... that way no one will feel bad
2006-08-27 04:25:25 · answer #1 · answered by jack jack 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong but not right either. You can't help it if you're attracted to someone who is already involved with someone else but you can control what you do with your attraction. You can control if you act on it or not. Bear in mind that just because she "kinda" likes you and may even go out with you doesn't guarantee an end to her current relationship. She may be a female player and decide to keep both of you which could put you smack in the middle of a big MESS. If you are truly interested in her, tell her that if she is ever back in the dating game as a single woman, give you a call. You'll save yourself plenty of DRAMA by not getting involved in a love triangle.
2006-08-27 11:28:38 · answer #2 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong. If she is happy with the guy, leave them alone. If she is not, you can make yourself known by being her friend but truly be her friend. Don't try to make her break up with the other guy, or convince her to leave him, but listen to her gripe about him or lend a shoulder to cry on. When things are over between them, you can eventually make your feelings known. Don't worry, there are a lot of good girls out there. Even if she isn't the one for you, there is someone who is. Most likely, she is even better than this girl - and available!
2006-08-27 11:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by Emi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is wrong to ask her out if she has a bf if she likes you enough she will dump her bf and then u go in there and ask her out but she is taken
2006-08-27 11:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by tiny&proud 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, You need to say " Hey like you .And i Know you have a boyfriend. so what is the deal with you two anyway." Something on that lines. So just flat out and ask her. Be smooth
2006-08-27 11:39:33 · answer #5 · answered by Lori K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, it's not wrong but you can't expect her to dump the other guy until she wants to. Best wishes
2006-08-27 11:25:30 · answer #6 · answered by colorist 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no but wait 4 them 2 break up ask her out but tell her 2 break up with her b/f first
but be carefull she can leave U 4 a new guy
2006-08-27 11:26:07 · answer #7 · answered by nina buena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it would be wrong to ask her if she is interested in doing so then it would be OK but if she said she wasn't then you should leave it at that and move on....
2006-08-27 11:26:25 · answer #8 · answered by panda 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong at all, you have to go for what you want. One question though, Is the guy bigger than you? He might want to try fighting you for taken his girl. Good luck.
2006-08-27 11:25:27 · answer #9 · answered by tabatha1333 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In the long run it will be because she'll probably do the same thing to you when a new guy comes along.
2006-08-27 11:24:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋