If a girl you hung out with alot that you knew liked you, but you were not sure if you liked her or not,... if she came up and flat out planted a sexy sexy kiss on your lips, would you freak out? Or would you go for it and want more? I don't mean more like sex at that point, I mean more as in, SHE IS HOT! kinda more...
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5 hours ago
Just for the record, I am the girl and I REALLY like.. actually have fallen in love with this guy. Just wanted to clear that up. and its not for sex, its because I really want a solid relationship with him! To get to know him and love him more then I do, if thats possible. I think that I have WAY more feelings for him then he does for me though. But you still think the kiss would make him want me? relationship wise? Not just sexually?
2006-08-27 04:16:43 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
love is a two way street.if you are going down a one way street it is better to drive somewhere else
2006-08-27 04:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by moon_gazer532000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the kiss did freak him out hahaha IF I was a guy and some hot girl just kissed me out of no where, I'd be like WHOA WTF. (but i'm a girl so that can't happen). in my opinion i think the kiss just sent sparks flying everywhere.. he's not able to make out the kiss because there are several reasons behind it like you just said. Guys take things in slowly and they're somewhat slow at these things hahaha. SORRY GUYS. It's just how it is, with me anyway from experience. Before scaring him off with your feelings, try to get to know him more Give him a reason to like you even more.. why you're so different from all his other past relationships. Get to know him too while yo'ure at it. Be yourself, and don't be scared to drop some hints everynow and then. He'll surely get these and probably be able to process through his head that you like him and want something more than sex; that you to be comitted and in a good relationship. good luck!
2006-08-27 04:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by lovergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you shoud say more about him not about you. It all depends of what kind of guy he is. A shy one would certainly freek out or fall flat on his back and a darin one might get the wrong impression an cocider you an easy prey. Yes, moast men would be interested (though arroused would be a better choice of words) but don`t expect a long term romantic relationship. I tell you all this because a girl did the same thing to me about a year ago. It didn`t work out for too long. He may become gelous soon and all could fall to pices.
2006-08-27 04:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by stephan rs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go slow and easy with him, Be patient! He will accept the relationship, if he is not already committed to another, you know nothing about....Do not throw yourself at him-this could be a mistake, many friendships end quickly, if one presses to hard..First of all be truthful and pop the question in a place of your choosing, have him give his thoughts and feelings on it. Be smart and coy...Women have an instinct in them like that lol lol :).
Always be upfront and to the point on these matters, when relationships change by either or persons involved....Think out your question carefully, before asking. If you do not get expected answer you want, just smile and show no hurt feelings, this could ruin a friendship quicker if he sees where it is going. By all means, accept his answer and continue on with the friendship,,,Who knows? Maybe someday he will come around-fate has many ways of leading you...:) :)
2006-08-27 04:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by tombowling49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it would confuse him. I think if you are looking to build a relationship that is not based on sex then ask him out to a movie or to get a bite to eat. Make it appear innocent and not like a date and see how things progress from there. The kiss may mislead him into wanting you for sexual reasons, which is not what you are trying to accomplish.
2006-08-27 04:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the kiss would defininately break the ice but as for freaking out that depends on how he feels about you in the first place and are you positively sure a kiss is the way to go about that
there are lots of different ways u can let him know how u feel without exposing ur cards altogether. better to play it safe and find out that he actually likes u in the way u like him dont u think
2006-08-27 04:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by mark d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my honest and humble opinion, I feel you should not use the kiss to make him want you. Your kiss may mislead him towards wanting to be with you sexually, depending on what kind of kiss you plant onto him. Also, your kiss may also give him the wrong impression and he may be freaked about you.
I suggest you tell him in words that you like him to be your boyfriend, and see what he says - as simple as that. Find the right time and right place to do so. Good luck.
2006-08-27 04:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you will get his attention, but perhaps not for the reasons you're hoping. I think you'd be better off by telling him how you felt and then kissing him before he has a chance to respond. Since I don't know either of you, this is the best educated guess I can come up with..... good luck!!
2006-08-27 04:28:46 · answer #8 · answered by Porterhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if you gave him a kiss he would probably like you more. If both of you dont have the same feelings for eachother than how could it work. You love him he sorta like you naw, maybe for a few days, but not for the long run, but he might fall in love with and there can be a fairytale ending until some other girl catches his eye. soo try it love hurts but fall and get up and and find the one who truly loves you.
2006-08-27 04:25:54 · answer #9 · answered by Eric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't freak out. I would suck your gingivitis-ridden gums!
To be serious, I would find that hot and would make out with you but afterwards I would be thinking what does this mean? Does this mean we are gonna date or does she want to be my girlfriend? I for one wouldn't hang out with a girl as much if I wasn't secretly in love with her. But maybe your guy wants things casual. You have to talk things out thoroughly. My first relationship back in the day was a lot of confusion to me because we didn't talk things out. TALK THINGS OUT. If he doesn't understand what you mean draw him a picture. Do whatever it takes to make him understand where you are coming from. Do not use hints. Even bright men can be dumb when it comes to relationships. Hints might confuse him even more. Be explicit.
Best of luck.
2006-08-27 04:44:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this, but if you do that he will get the wrong idea... I mean, yes, you will get his attention, but he will think either
A... You just want to have sex...
B... You are a whore...
And that's not the message you are trying to send...
I'd try dropping subtler hints, like telling him how you enjoy spending time with him and telling him how good he looks in that shirt... Unfortunately men don't always pick up on subtle... But I'd try that first and see how it goes...
2006-08-27 04:22:57 · answer #11 · answered by HONORARIUS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋