confused about a girl please help?

Question

i have sort off been seein a girl i really like for 3 weeks, we have been on 3 dates but she sent me a txt today sayin the followimg
"hey scott! how was last nite? i cant remember nethin past 9! ok im gonna b honset wiv u now, im not lookin 4 nethin serious at the mo, ur a sound guy but i get that impression from last time we met up, it waz like we were boyf/girlf, ive not known u long n it takes longer b4 i can get close 2 and b like that wiv someone. i hope that makes sense? x"
so what is she tryin to tell me she does'nt wanna see me, or maybe just wants to take things slower. any help or advice please guys thanks.

Answer 1

I think what she means is that she wants to take it slow. To take time to get to know each other before you get hot and heavy etc or too serious. Sounds like she thought whatever happened between you two "after 9" was a little too fast. Give her some space and dont' feel bad about it. If you two are meant to be it will work itself out. Why don't you ask her what she really means by that and tell her to spell it out clear, because the worst would for her to be not telling you the truth because she doesnt' want to hurt your feelings. Tell her how you feel, and tell her you don't want to push her etc. to make any commitments yet etc. Best thing is to just sit down one afternoon over coffee/tea/lunch whatever (not a late night date) and talk it over. Good luck!

Answer 2

Either way; it's not good.

She's either saying that she doesn't want to know, or has been seeing somebody else behind your back.

Personally I'd back right off. I don't do the "sort of" thing - like most people, you're either and item or not. So unless there was an agreed "open relationship" discussion - she's just not playing cricket.

Normally I wouldn't be so direct, but you've so little time and, by the souds of it, emotion that it shouldn't be difficult for you.

So more right along; you can't trust her.

Move right along it I were you.

Answer 3

Coming from a girl.. I can tell you this much. The girl is saying she really wants to take things down a notch, it's too much for her to take in! I think she's saying this because as she already pointed you the fact that you guys just met and whatever, she's maybe scared of committment and she's using that 'text' as an excuse. I don't know, that's just me. I'm leanning towards slow things down. Get to know her better as she does the same with you, and sooner or later things will get more comfortable. good luck!

Answer 4

Its nothing hard. She just doesn't want to be in a serious relationship at the moment. Just take things slow with her and when she is ready to be in a relationship she will let you know. Hope everything works out ok.

Answer 5

It sounds like she just want to be friends and have fun. She doesn't want to have a committed relationship. I am curious as to why she couldn't remember anything after 9:00? Was she drinking? If so, is that something you really want to be in your life?

Answer 6

ok im a girl and i would say that shes saying that she wants you to slow it down a notch. she wants to take her time to get to know you before she gets into the serious stuff. shes saying it takes her longer than most people to get to know them. so if you really love her slow down and give her some time. still go on dates and stuff just don't go for the sex part of the date OK?

Answer 7

She doesn't have any interest in you outside of a friend. It doesn't sound as though she wants a relationship with you at all. If that is what you were looking for you should look somewhere else.

Answer 8

listen she doesnt want 2 be wae u the now just be friends wae her u never know it might lead 2 sumthing else if not tell her how u feel and let her think about it hope it goes well ok

Answer 9

take things slower for now and see if anything comes of it

Answer 10

weeks
go for it


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