The police finally caught my estranged boyfriend in Florida. He was shot and in the chest and he was sent to the ER. He was sent back u here and I visited him in the hosptial. I still love him deeply after what he did, but I don't know what to do.
Look at me past uestions to see what I'm talking about.
2006-08-27 04:08:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you are feeling is not "in love", it's addiction. You are addicted to the nerves, the outrage, the pain, the excitement of seeing him again, the physical attraction. Love is giving! And it's not you giving to him, it's both of you giving to each other.
My suggestion is to find one of those guys you think is boring and would do anything for you and see if any of those guys grow on you. The people who I have seen are the happiest together have a deep friendship.
Find a counseling and support group and get away from this jerk.
2006-08-27 04:37:19 · answer #1 · answered by starspangledgirl77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For Christ's sake, don't can't you see this guys a loser? You were pregnant by him and he punched you in the stomach and made you miscarry? Come on! This guy didn't even care about his OWN flesh and blood, what does he care about you? He was irresponsible and fled from police instead of being a man and owning up for what he did. Now I guess while he is in jail, you'll make sure you put money on his books, pay for all his collect calls (since he'll call twenty times a day out of boredom and he knows you will accept them) and see him every visiting day PLUS wait on him to get out and own up to all the empty promises he'll make while behind bars. Tsk! Tsk! I read you were the "Queen" but I'll salute you as the Queen of Fools! Don't worry. You won't have to deal with him too much longer because before its all said and done, he'll either get you killed or in jail while he's on the outside looking in on you... Did you pick out a plot? You already had to get one for your unborn baby so to speak! WAKE UP b4 its 2 l8!
2006-08-27 11:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by hellokittyt012263 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am amazed that you even have to ask this question! Why would you even go visit the bum? He is a loser and unless you want to become a loser yourself you better move on and try to find a better quality of guy.
2006-08-27 11:29:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When thinking of your future do you dream of a nice house, car, ect? All of these are hard to obtain with a felon as your man. If you want a tough future then go 4 it.
2006-08-27 11:19:39 · answer #4 · answered by Stacey b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to think things through without outside help. Every decision you make you have to be the one happy and satisfied about it.
2006-08-27 11:20:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um well i would say if u seem a future with him thats non crimnal then stay with him, but if hes gonna be caught um in trouble ur setting ur self up for heartbreak.
2006-08-27 11:14:03 · answer #6 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know many women are into the bad boy syndrome but this is ridiculous...
2006-08-27 11:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray 4 him
2006-08-27 11:11:38 · answer #8 · answered by madchiman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like he did something bad if they had to shoot him. Think about what it is doing to you. Is it worth it??
2006-08-27 11:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by Lori K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your self this question do u really need this kind of trouble in your life?
2006-08-27 11:18:27 · answer #10 · answered by rhine_15065 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋