I really like someone but cant seem to gather up enough courage to ask her out. The thing is i am a quiet, reserved type of person. I like her because she is intelligent, warm and beautifull...if it was possible i would even ask her to marry me...we dont see each other that often but sometimes communicate by email...we have both been busy so we have even stopped emailing each other...i think she thinks i am ignoring her. Do you think she would be interested in me?
2006-08-27 04:02:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She has invited me over to her place a few times...still havent gone, the reason is not really because i am shy but because i do not think i am the best person for her...she is probably looking for some guy who is popular and an extrovert with many friends etc....and that is not me
2006-08-27 04:13:33 · update #1
I am going to help you out. Send her an e-mail that says the following: "Hey (name)........How have you been? I know that we have both been really busy lately but I have thought about you the past few days. I am wondering if you would be interested in getting together after work for a quick bite to eat and to catch up? It would be fun so if you would like to do it, let me know. Have a good one" It is upbeat, positive and if you do not hear back or she makes an excuse then you will know and not make a fool out of yourself. If she says 'yes" then there is hope. Take the leap of faith.
2006-08-27 04:10:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have to let her know you are interested in her, in the way that you are. Tell her that you admire her for both her beauty and her intellect. That you are completely taken with her beautiful nature. You may want to ask her if she would be interested in going out on a date with you....(that's how you get started) The thing about marriage, since you don't see one another very often... is a little freaky...since marriage is a step to be considered well into a serious relationship. But anyways, sounds like you are crazy about her...just let her know your feelings and go from there.
2006-08-27 04:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by jude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not worry.Start e-mailing her again and if u see some interest go ask her out.Why are u worried that girls may turn u down?that is always and option.No doesn't mean death or sth!We can't be attractive to anyone!U will live many love stories in your life to worry about it right now.Be yourself, don't brag and be confident.If u ask her out without worries she will like it.Confidence is always the secret weapon and if she doesn't want it's normal to be depressed for a while but then u'll forget!
Live the moment.Seize the day.Carpe diem.
2006-08-27 04:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by BlondieGd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, you seem like a really down to earth guy who looks for the meaningful qualities in a woman. Just because you are shy, does not mean she won't be interested in you. You just have to get to know each other better so she can see the rest of your personality.
2006-08-27 04:07:44 · answer #4 · answered by LuLu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only find out by letting her know who you are and what you are about. Gather up that courage and ask her out, that would be the first step. Second be honest and for real then you will find out if she is interested in you. Good Luck!
2006-08-27 04:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by Naa-Naa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never know how a person feels about you unless you be the brave one and go up and tell her.She may be thinking the very exact thing about you right now.She may be shy to tell you something like this as well.Go ahead and let her know befor it's too late.Good Luck
2006-08-27 04:06:15 · answer #6 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...You just have to take it slow,and ask her out.Send her an e mail and start 'talking' again,that's how you're gonna show her that you are still thinking about her,and that you're interested in being more then friends !:) good luck
2006-08-27 04:08:51 · answer #7 · answered by Felicity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes still likes u. if it was there in the first place, then just because u both have been busy doesn't mean she has forgotten about. email or whatever and then go from there.
2006-08-27 04:08:56 · answer #8 · answered by seanzy's girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly - do not get obsessed with her. She will ignore you and it would be VERY bad for both of you.
secondly - if you like her, do not make it obvious too early in the friendship. (Oh remember, always friendship before relationship)
3. email her, meet with her and get to know her better
4. if she likes you she will make plans to be with you
5. make sure you make plans!
And enjoy it, don't stress so much. enjoy the moment!!
2006-08-27 04:13:28 · answer #9 · answered by Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes!!!! the intellegent chicks always fall for the quite guys. e-mail her asking her if the two of you want to hang out somtime, then when you two are together ask her a little later on if you guys could just go ahead and count it as a date.
2006-08-27 04:07:24 · answer #10 · answered by livinlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋