he's outgoing but he doesnt talk to much.......im 14 hes 15.....help plzzzzzzzzz how can i get him to talk more w/out me asking him ?s
2006-08-27 03:57:57 · 21 answers · asked by cliona 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't ask him anymore questions, talk to him about things that matter to you or that you think are important (news, school, hobbies, movies, etc).
2006-08-27 03:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How often do you all talk now? In school? out of school? Does he call you? you him? Do you know much about him? How long have you been "going out" with each other? I know my DD has a boyfriend and they talked a lot on the phone about "real" things... his racing, her gymnastics... stuff from school... but it was always both talking.... they were also really good friends before they starting going out.... Perhaps having a girlfriend is all new to him and he's just shy and not sure what he should do or say? Try just treating him like one of your friends and certainly DON'T expect too much, that will just drive him away - especially if you 20Q him all the time about his lack of "communication"
2006-08-27 04:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by Amy E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first talk to him about hot celebs, then school stuff, maybe even sex, and last of all anything that seems to get his attention more, but he doesn't need to talk. If this doesn't seem to work, just think about dumping him or start to have some sex with him, that may make you more sexy, fun and exciting.You know that he's still only 15, so you might thinkabout treating him like a friend, a grown up or a almost mature man(like ones who know how to have sex).
2006-08-27 05:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't u start talking 2 him more if u tell him why don't u talk 2 me then he is going 2 think that your the kind of girl that likes alot of attention and if he is outgoing then he's going 2 think that your holding him back
2006-08-27 04:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by nina buena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys that age just dont talk! Very annoying I know! Try getting him on to a subject he really enjoys like football or something and i'm sure you wont be able to shut him up!
2006-08-27 04:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by cassidy d 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people just don't like to talk much. Maybe he's one of them. Or maybe he just has nothing to say. Don't take it as a reflection on you or your relationship, just let him be. If he has something to say, he'll say it. Besides, wouldn't you rather be with someone who doesn't talk too much instead of someone who never shuts up?
2006-08-27 04:01:58 · answer #6 · answered by Alecto 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him and then he might get comfortable talking to you.Spend time together so you have something to talk about.
2006-08-27 04:00:45 · answer #7 · answered by cutie_2009 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its the age thing.... he's only 15 and you are only 14. he does not have any experience, what do you expect? go do something fun maybe that will open him up.... maybe something that he enjoy doing.
2006-08-27 04:00:42 · answer #8 · answered by Btieti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop acting so immature. He is probably not into you and has another girlfriend. Youare too young for a boyfriend anyway!
2006-08-27 04:00:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you could see what he is interested in and do the same type of things, this will give you more common things to talk about.
2006-08-27 04:00:08 · answer #10 · answered by eaglea0504 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋