Okay we both have stressful jobs but I am aroused all the time, the only time we really see each other is on the weekend and then all he does is fall asleep. In the last two weeks we have only had sex twice and I didnt even get off what should I do?
2006-08-27 03:43:15 · 26 answers · asked by Mandy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to find someone who will look after your every wish in the sex department.if he is treating you like this now ,can you imagine what it would be like if you get married ,or have kids.he sounds like he really doesn't care about you, if he has sex with you and doesn't let you orgasm first ,before he finishes.that just sounds selfish.maybe he is seeing someone that he works with.has he been mentioning anyone at work.find yourself a real man that cares for you and your feelings.or tell the man in your life how you feel and hope he doesn't take it the wrong way.good luck.
2006-08-27 04:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by spocklogical1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to tell you this but the one with the greater sx drive always has to do some work. Try planning a romantic weekend just the two of you nothing big of he wil get tired and you lose out. Get the house empty and have a candlelight dinner with a bottle of wine. although it seems backwards you will need to seduce him if all else fails lay next to him in bed naked and masturbate and be as loud as humanly possible. I dont know about him but i would never in a million years be able to resist that no matter how tired i was.
2006-08-27 03:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by alex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been together? If you could fit some kind of change into your already busy schedule, that usually will arouse male curiosity. You could also try to introduce some porn, or games to spice up your lovemaking to get him started.
Also, i he's so tired, he could try taking a nap during the day, so that later in the day he's more rested.
Another thing that you can do to feel more comfortable is to work out at a gym.
2006-08-27 03:55:23 · answer #3 · answered by Celeste A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to plan something fun, if he's tired and sleeping you need to change that. Find something you both like and can get excited about doing together. Then when you're done doing that, transition into the other part. Make sure you don't wait too long as to let him get tired again. He might need to see a doctor, people tired all the time might be depressed, overworked, or have a heart condition.
2006-08-27 03:54:16 · answer #4 · answered by anitahooker_transvestite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a few things you can...
1. Buy yourself a toy for those times when you just have to have it.
2. Find someone with the same sex drive you have...this shouldn't be hard to do.
3. Try surprising him with a really skimpy outfit and just ignore him for a while...this should get his motor running.
Answer his questions but, don't let him know your're looking for the "Big O"
Let me know if things get better.
2006-08-27 03:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by theactordray 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sista, i see ur pain. but understand this, stress takes more toil on men than on us ladies. men usually lose that emotional 'ting' that makes them horny when they are stressed out, whereas ladies actually want to relieve the stress by making luv. So, what to do? set the mood before he gets home. start this way, candle lit dinner with a great meal, then a wash up in the shower with scents and all. Trust me, he'll give u everything ur body's been missing while u guys are in that shower. But if u do all this and 'ur man doesn't represent, then U are in trouble! u'll need to get another man. xx
2006-08-27 04:08:46 · answer #6 · answered by cathy z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talk to him about this and does he know that this is really bothering you. I don't that is a man alive that doesn't want to try to satisfy the girl he is with if he can. I wonder how good the communication is between the two of you. Regardless of that you can always masturbate if you need too.
Sounds like you need to have a chat with Dr. Laura about this if you can't communicate this to your partner - I wish you the best of luck.
2006-08-27 03:49:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you need more attention. What is more important - this job or you? His job won't be coming to his funeral. We all have stress it's how we deal with it that matters. If he is having such a problem maybe he could get some help dealing with it. Many company's now offer this as part of their benifits!!!
2006-08-27 03:47:43 · answer #8 · answered by angeldove905 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would try to find a time when the both of u will be free of time and want to make love to each other. I find that the morning time is good for me and my hubby b/c we have 2 very younger children (under 5) . we have to make love b4 they wake up.
2006-08-27 03:49:56 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be patient and talk to Ur guy.let him know the way u feel and get him to understand u.also try making him aroused and u can also make luv to him.participate actively during those times and make him feel like a man.this will make u get what u want to enable u feel like a woman
2006-08-27 03:53:25 · answer #10 · answered by princess a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋