my man works a real stressful job (marine drill instructor) long shifts sometimes i can barely talk to him we text message each other alot and get phones call every once in a while......i want to make him feel relaxed at his job so i was wondering what is a nice message to send him while he's at work to make him feel better or what can i do for him when he gets a break?
2006-08-27 03:37:23 · 13 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing relaxes a man like a good massage. When he is home, be sure to give him one. When he is away you can text silly things about what you are wearing, what you are thinking the two of you will do when he gets home, etc. Just to keep him guessing about you.
2006-08-27 03:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ahve any expectations from him when you spend time together. it makes it more stressful for him if he works hard and has to do even more work when he finally gets a break. give him a picture or just wish him a good day and keep it simple.
no one wants to be bothered with things that are not as important than just holding the one you love and watching tv or taking a nap if you have more time do something that you find peaceful and together you can make the day the best relaxing for the both of you and it didn't take much and the best part is that you were with the person you wanted to be with.
don't make anything you do together an chore for the other.
the best thing you can do for a person is jsut be thereand let them know you are happy just to be in there arms and to be held at night and kissed in the morning and always be there through hard times. and be there hope for you are what makes it all worth what they go through during work.
2006-08-27 03:53:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's only so much you can do through texting. Most men find comfort in the physical - not necessarily sex although sex is a big stress reliever. In any case, I meant to say that words are not merely enough, when his breaks rolls around, make sure you make it his day. Ask him what he wants to do for the day, load him with hugs and kisses but don't suffocate him. He is so stressed that he may find that irritating. Then at night, surprise him with something. Maybe offer him a massage, serenade him and make him laugh, run a bath for him with soothing oils, make him a home video (not sexual) and watch it together (clean, good fun), make him his favorite meal or take him to his favorite restuarant, etc. By the way, you can send him a surprise package to his work perhaps...?
2006-08-27 03:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by Emi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure his uniforms are fresh and perfect every morning. Try to get him interested in reading books or going to movies on his days off. Try to talk abou tsomething other than privates or recruits or ADIs or series this or platoon that or Gunny somebody when he gets home. Try to live a normal healthy life that is worthwhile and stable. Have something fun to talk about when he gets home and go do things together. Make plans for your life together. That is as much as you can do. Being a drill instructor is tough. Paris Island is not a great place to live. (San Diego could be though.)
Keep it tight. Keep it satisfying for both of you. Being happy yourself will be good for him.
2006-08-27 03:45:39 · answer #4 · answered by Cattlemanbob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sista?! don't worry your sweet head 'bout your man while he's at work. He's doing real fine while at it, and most men don't want to be crowded by their. But if you choose to, you can be a little flirtatious with your text. u know, type sexy, sultry stuff to him [not the "honey, i luv u" sms u send him]. guys like some freak in their ladies. talk dirty on the phone to him when he's at work too. that'll give him something to look forward to at the end of work, and i bet u, he'll get thru' work easy/unstressed just b'cos he'ld like to get home and do the things ur body long for even before he shuts the door. Good luck. xx
2006-08-27 03:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by cathy z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really don't know
i would say probably you should not try too hard for the reason that you might get discouraged.
be sure to enforce to him that you love him and support him and that understand what lies on his shoulders and that it makes you proud to be married to a man who trains other men to defend this coun try.
stay away from i miss you, im lonely with you.
these phrases only make harder for him to do what he has to do.
because i am sure that he cannot just get up and come home.
live well laugh often love much
2006-08-27 03:52:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make his lunch for him and put a note in it telling him how much you love & appreciate him & how hard he works for you. when he comes home from work greet him in something sexy and give him the love he deserves. Youll find he'll treat you the way you want him to.
2006-08-27 03:44:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of a love song that means something to you both that you know most of the words to and he'll recongnize. I text my girlfriend one like that and when she got home I reaped the rewards.
2006-08-27 03:40:45 · answer #8 · answered by guitardan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A smile works wonders. Give him a picture of you smiling at a particularly memorable moment that the two of you shared.
2006-08-27 03:41:00 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem as u r. my husband is ships captain.
i know ur feeling . tell him how much u proud of him ,& u ,ur home missing him a lot. waiting for him as much as it s take
any way show him u r enough strong.good luck.
2006-08-27 03:43:50 · answer #10 · answered by behnoush_k_1976 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋