i still like the boy who dumped me what do i do?

Question

im lonley

Answer 1

First, relax.
Second, the new - nextone will erase him

Answer 2

Getting dumped is such a blow to your self esteem. If you can focus on what you didn't like about him, that might help some. Problem is, we usual remember all the good bits and forget the crappy parts. Get out and about, go to the library, get some trashy novels, even romances. Cry about the lovey love story. Get movies in, invite girlfriends and have a make-up and a movie night. Cry over the lovey love story. Hang out at the Mall and eye up the guys. Join the amateur dramatics society. You can meet all kinds of people there. Volunteer at the Humane Society and walk dogs. You can meet all kinds of nice people when you're walking dogs. Take evening classes, takes your mind off him. Basically keep yourself as active as you can. Don't give your brain time to waste on thinking about him. Problem is, this might take a little while, so take care of yourself, learn to like being with you. Lean on a really good friend. That's what friends are for. Cry when you want to, but if it is a real problem and you are taking a really long time to get over him, get some counselling.
Good Luck. I've had to do this so I do know what I'm taking about and I totally sympathize with you. It is NOT easy.

Answer 3

its ok to feel lonely i know how it feels to be dumped i been through so many internet relationships and only one real relationship but it was horrible. its going to take time to get over the boy who dumped you. just live one day at a time, put one foot in front of the other and if you fall pick yourself up and dust yourself and move on with your life. you dont need anyone who will dump you.

Answer 4

The first thing you need to realize is that you deserve better than this guy. The second thing to do is stay busy! The more time you have doing things with friends and family, the faster you'll distance yourself from the situation and put yourself in a frame of mind to meet someone new and special.

Answer 5

Hey, you like who you like. Just because he didn't like you doesn't mean that you have to stop. If you still like him that doesn't make him a jerk. People have the right to accept or reject people in their lives for whatever reason...right? Why did he dump you? Are you just not his type? Did you do things to annoy him?

Just for the record, though...I wouldn't try to pursue him if I were you. He might really hate you if you start stalking him. Or worse yet, he may do something bad to you out of embarrassment. Just let him go and go on with your life.

There's a mate for everyone. Someone may like you that you don't yet know.

Answer 6

Why would you like someone who dumped you? Move on. Life is too short to dwell on someone like that. Get out there and show the world what a fantastic person you are and make him sorry for what he gave up and in doing so, you will find out that you are fantastic!

Answer 7

I know how you feel,
and to tell the truth theres not much you can do.

Getting your mind off the matter, in other words try not to think about him much.Stay buisy hang out with friends, laugh.

Its hard and it could last awhile depends on how much you liked him and how long you were with him.

I've experienced a couple times and I never found a true 100% cure and belive me i tryed it all.

hope i've helped some.

Answer 8

Its normal to still have feelings for someone after a relationship ends, but you try to move on. There are alot of great people out there. You know what, it feels much better when that new person likes you back.

Answer 9

I have a simaliar experience as yours, you can do nothing actually accept moving forward and live your life to full. Maybe one day he will call you back, seriously I don't suggest you to call him in the near future, cool down and open your chances to others, make yourself look good and stay happy.

Answer 10

get some good friends & hang out with them
It will help u recover out of it.

Moreover
Now its ur turn to dump people, u shouldn't be on the receiving side always

Answer 11

..you got to learn to let go.. and find someone who is worth better than him. his just not worth crying over.. why not go find all your friends and go out and have fun and maybe that would only cheer you up while having fun a single guy might appear and comes over and talk to you, you never know if you don't go out and have fun with your friends that is.. I personal know how you feel, alot of us been there once.. just takes time.. good luck=)