I went into myspace browse and my bf had been looking for singles and swingers on my computer (we don't live together)...I confronted him, and he said he was looking for his best friend's gf (his best friend and that guy's gf have been unlocatable, so he claimed he was trying to find them via her myspace profile)...
He finally admitted it last night that he was looking for women to put comments on profiles, and mess with their heads.
I know he hasn't cheated on me, but is saying "you bring this up a lot because you cheated on me."
which is not true.
I'm faced with evidence (not that he's cheated, but that he's looking).
I don't want to break up, but would old-fashioned courtship be the best way to date from now on?
No intimacy, etc...or is that just asking for trouble.
We're extremely close...we think on the same level when together, and have been together since Easter.
We are wonderful together, and my only loss is that I don't know how to handle this situation
2006-08-27 02:41:18 · 7 answers · asked by silver butterfly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok well u talked to him so thats good. But ask him what you can do to make him want you more instead of other girls, he obvousily doesnt feel like hes getting enough in ur realtionship... and do u love him? because if ur on "in" love with him... then maybe consider breaking up, before he dumps u for a girl on myspace.
2006-08-27 02:45:06 · answer #1 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you found a real winner.if he is looking for other women online,it won't be long before he is doing it in the real world.he is using the myspace thing as a practicing ground for what he intends to do.sorry to say, but he will (if not already ) cheat on you.he is probably one of those internet pretators that cruise the myspace site looking for little girls to talk dirty to.if you can check out the ages of the "women"he is chatting with.i hope i'm wrong,but if i'm not he should be reported to the police before he gets carried away and tries to meet one of these girls.good luck with your life.
2006-08-27 10:00:25 · answer #2 · answered by spocklogical1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like trouble is brewing. Old fashion romance is good if he is up to it. If anyone feels like they have to "put out" in order to keep their current boyfriend or girlfriend then that is showing lack of respect to you.
Good Luck and keep a watchful eye, remember he has already lied to you once.
2006-08-27 10:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get serious! 1st the guy searches for other women,next he lies to you about it,then he says you are the guilty one cos you "cheated".That doesnt sound like the kinda guy anyone would like to get stuck with to me! What happens to you when he finds a woman he likes during his search for "his friend's gal"? Think about that!!!
2006-08-27 09:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by G glow 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is doing risky behavior. It might just be playful fun for him. but it couid turn into something that could ruin your relationsihp.
Help him find another habit online. like Yahoo Questions
2006-08-27 09:57:39 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if he'd handle it if it was the other way.
Sadly it does not sound good.
2006-08-27 09:58:41 · answer #6 · answered by fnqbigboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish u luck........
2006-08-27 09:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by outback 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋