I'm 29, he's 20...we look the same age though...he looks a little older and I look a little younger; my family thinks it's absurd and shameful. also, do they tire of you after the years? do they go for someone younger???
2006-08-27 02:40:12 · 15 answers · asked by blessed 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no its not shameful!
As long as you understand each other and get on well...there is no problem and its no one else's business!! As long as your happy. That is wat counts.
And love is a risky business wheather ur guy is younger or older ... they can leave for a younger gal.
So just have faith and trust in ur love and everything will be fine.
goodluck
2006-08-27 02:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by nice_b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This age difference is not that great. I was involved twice with a woman who is almost 16 years older. I loved her for 20 years. I will always love her. If two people love and trust each other, and the spark is there, go for it. Remember always that any relationship requires work, not just because of age.
2006-08-27 02:45:22 · answer #2 · answered by beatlepath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow your family needs to think about u for a minute not the age difference. Age doesnt matter as long as you love the person and ur not there just for the money and stablily issue, if he truly loves you and u truly love him, then ur realtionship will last forever. so dont worry about what your family thinks because age doesnt matter. its all about the love girlfriend!!!
2006-08-27 02:49:30 · answer #3 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there is nothing wrong with you as far as both of you enjoy your life.as far as leaving for someone younger is concerned, then it can happen even if you are much younger than boyfriend and that could have many other reasons as well and could not be attributed to this alone
2006-08-27 02:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by Kehgohar R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with dating a younger guy at all. most every guy i've ever gone out with has been younger than me. i was with the last one for over 5 years, so it can work sometimes.... best of luck to you hun:)
2006-08-27 02:45:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no... its not shameful... are u happy? do u love him? does he treat u rite? if u answered yes too all these questions then does it matter? who cares what every1 else thinks... ur the one who has to b happy... ur the one that has to live with ur decsion...
hope that was helpful... Good luck :)
2006-08-27 02:44:06 · answer #6 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what ever u feel is right. Ask your heart what is right or wrong. Ask your boy friend what he things. then make any decision.
2006-08-27 02:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anjon28July 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
add him to ur wide groub
2006-08-27 02:42:48 · answer #8 · answered by john t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all i bet he loves it
2006-08-27 02:41:50 · answer #9 · answered by johnno K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's pefectly fine and have fun
2006-08-27 02:58:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋