plaz i need sugestions from girls on how to go about it
2006-08-27 02:26:23 · 8 answers · asked by raymond s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Write her a note, thats the best way. because you are shy. Or give her signs, help her on her homwork or with questions. Walk her to class.
2006-08-27 02:28:21 · answer #1 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a 14 year old girl, and not to long ago i was shy. The best way I did it was to write notes. I figured it was a little immature though so i stopped. If you really like her just ask her. The worst she could say is no. You mite be shy and be afriad of being turned down n all, but if you ask her she will be really flattered. Even though she mite not act like it, she will be. Start with a conversation, or just by saying hi every once in a while. Try to become friends with her. Youll know if your her type or not through little signals she sends you. If you think your her type work up the nerve to ask her, cuz shell prbly say yes and youll be happy you asked. But if your to shy to ask or work up the nerve youll miss out on her and keep thinking, "What wouldve happened......?" Itll be worth it, even if she doesnt want to date you, you mite make a gr8 friends...n l8r on most likely gr8 friends beomce MORE thn friends, so either way itll turn out good for you. hopefully. all you have to do is be proactive.
2006-08-27 09:41:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's talk about the possibilites. You can either stay shy and never get to know her, and scold yourself that you never made a move, or hit on her and be afraid that she will reject you. Guess what. If you use the "I'm shy excuse" you aren't accomplishing anything. ZERO percent chance of getting to know her compared to a chance to get to know her.
It's better to aim at the sky and hit the ground than just aim the ground. (Even if she turns you down, at least you know you aren't her type and you can move on and look for someone WHO IS!)
"It is better to try and fail than to have never tried."
Just remember that saying.
2006-08-27 09:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by deusdenton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she would like to go see a movie, make sure it is a chick flick, and if she says yes, tell her you will pick her up in your car at such and such a time......oh wait, you are 14, then it would not be a date as we know it.....this would be more of a play date......sorry.....but still that is the way to do it......and get the time okayed with your mom or dad....whoever would be taking you
2006-08-27 09:31:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, your way too young to be dating. first get to know this girl by being friends with her. I promise, you wont regret it. Girls are reluctant to go out with a guy they just met, so take your time. Be her friend, gain her trust. Then you'll have a better chance of her agreeing to going out with you.
2006-08-27 09:31:44 · answer #5 · answered by T-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus get over ur shyness and walk up 2 her and mabe she will accept
2006-08-27 09:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by m_belongs-2-me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to her tell her ro close eyes and then tell her . . . haha
2006-08-27 09:30:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young ... focus on school and your grades
2006-08-27 09:29:24 · answer #8 · answered by jus j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋