old boyfriend engaged 2 her but lied,with anotherwomen now she gave him her cell phone# and e-mail
2006-08-27 02:15:17 · 8 answers · asked by angryblkman2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Because that's what women do. I personally don't believe in keeping in touch with ex's. I don't believe in that whole 'we're just friends.' I'm sure some people can do it but the only reason I've ever kept in touch with an ex was to keep getting the @ss.
I don't buy into the whole idea that they were good friends at one point and things didn't work out. If they were such good friends, then they should still be together. If they want to stay in touch, then one of them still has feelings or just wants to get together. Find out if its your g/f. If she says no and you believe her, tell her that you don't like the idea of her talking to her ex. If she hits you with the jealousy argument, then she has something to hide. If that's the case, then kick her to the curb.
If it's the dude, tell him to stay away from your kool aide. Better yet, invite the dude over and see how they are around eachother. You can get a good idea of what the dude is like. You might even end up liking the guy. If she doesn't want you to meet him, she's hiding something.
2006-08-27 02:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by JediGuitarist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She lied because of your insecurities and jealousies. No big deal giving out email and phone number, but she really should have dealt with you and told you the truth. That being said, they were once very close (since they were engaged) I am friendly with everyone I ever dated. If I bumped into an old boyfriend I would not think it odd to be friendly. As long as she is not dating him on the side.
2006-08-27 09:22:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there's more going on than she wants to admit. If contact with the old boyfriend is nothing.... why lie about it? Unless... you're the overly jealous type and she feels like, she can only share certain things with you, because of a short temper perhaps.
2006-08-27 09:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww...it doesn't mean anything...she doesn't want to tell you cause you would get upset......when there is another woman involved and 2 people break up cause of her the chances of getting back are very bleak.Maybe she just wants to keep in touch......I am friends with my ex b/f and my husband knows it and trusts me 100%I know he does and that's what keeps me from straying...just the fact that he trusts i wouldn't betray him keeps me totally in love with him and I would never even look a another man....ex's need to be treated as bygones by current people in your life!
2006-08-27 09:33:23 · answer #4 · answered by heraamarantha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude, talk to her, don't go by all the answers here.... be good to her, maybe something you said/did made her feel insecure about things. Your best bet is to talk to her without getting too emotionelly involved in this.
2006-08-28 12:13:54 · answer #5 · answered by smorgan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh man, it doesn't look good, she is still into that guy, you better get ready, she is going to drift away little by little and you'll suffer the heart ache, run! run!run!
2006-08-27 10:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by class4 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe just to be nice and keep in touch or more likely to keep in touch for those late lonely nights, booty call
2006-08-27 11:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by JoeP 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's time for a heart-to-heart talk with her.
2006-08-27 11:20:05 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋