2006-08-27 02:10:59 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You tell them politely .
2006-08-27 02:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u dont like them as in...dont fancy them or...that they're obnoxious ...or both?
oh well, what works for me is, i ignore them...if they're a bit on the thick side, bring up a conversation where you outline what you REALLY like in a partner and give a detailed description of what this person is obviously NOT. if its a bloke, just say to him you met a hot girl lately who really does it for you, if its a female, just say you're not interested. if someone is thick skinned, the instantaneous all round winner is to give the person a level look and say, i'm not interested in you. thats what i find anyway. i say that with a pinch of salt though, because my general instinct is to empathize, however, i remind myself i can't see someone out of pity, i wont be offering my best and won't be getting any in return either...
2006-08-27 02:19:42 · answer #2 · answered by Wisdom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be frank ,politely and honestly say the reasons why you don't like them. It's better to say sooner than being plastic, or hypocrite. By the way it's hard to be with the persons you don't like.
2006-08-27 03:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by vinus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find out why u dont like them. If you find the reason try to talk to them to solve it. Ignoring some one won't help you or the person you r ignoring. It hope this will help u in future.
2006-08-27 02:32:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anjon28July 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A brick with a note tied around it & thrown through the front window usually works wonders.
2006-08-27 04:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by oh kate! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Just say I like you but I don't think we can be any more than friends. Remember under that thick outta shell is a human...with feelings. Rejection never feels nice
2006-08-27 02:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just ignore them and they soon get the message. I know it works cos it`s happened a few times
2006-08-27 02:19:33 · answer #7 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont like someone just be honest and tell them instead of beating around the bush. it will hurt even mor if you DONT tell them than it would if you tell them. dont string people along some people are crazy no telling what they would do to you for playing with their emotions.
2006-08-27 02:15:45 · answer #8 · answered by nurse2011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are pursuing you, you shold tell them that you don't want to lead them on and let them down easy. Whatever you do, just do it in a very unembarrassing way.
2006-08-27 02:14:24 · answer #9 · answered by trombonegirl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Er.. I always find the subtle approach works best .....if u look them straight in the eye and shout something like "GOD I FUC*ING HATE YOUR GUTS" . Sometimes this seems to work coz it leaves no room for doubt. Get me drift....
2006-08-27 02:15:55 · answer #10 · answered by Sir Nickle Barsteward 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once picked up a guys phone while he was raging, so i phoned his wife so she could hear her self being described in bed.... I think he got a sort of message. It solved any mis understandings all round!!!
2006-08-27 02:16:23 · answer #11 · answered by mark r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋