when he believes i should be with him. but i want my ex more. but the current boyfriend just won't accept it. and makes abusive comments about my ex
2006-08-27 01:45:20 · 6 answers · asked by ellen s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have told him he deserves better but every time i see him he approaches me and says, "but we were so good together" etc, etc. and i do actually like him. but not as a boyfriend
2006-08-27 01:54:24 · update #1
That is so stupid I don't know where to begin to answer this other than to say that you should break up with the current bf as he deserves better.
2006-08-27 01:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by InternetPosterChild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do the right thing and let this current boyfriend go. If you don't love him and don't want to be with him, then Don't be with him. Break up with him and please allow him to move on.
As for the Ex-boyfriend, go for it. That's great. However are you sure that he still loves you and wants you back? That might be really important.
The whole situation sounds like you still have a lot of growing up to do. I'm sorry but that's the truth. You should never be in a relationship with someone that you don't care for. And I'm not necessarily talking about love here, I'm talking about caring, trust for the person so that you respect their feelings and don't just use them until someone better comes along. Good luck.
2006-08-27 09:02:26 · answer #2 · answered by CuriousGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Friend,
If you aren't completely over your ex boyfriend you should take some time for yourself to get your ex out of your system. Let your current boyfriend know that you do like him, but you still have some things to sort out and that you cannot possibly give him the attention and commitment that he is looking for right now. If you really like the new guy, try not to damage the relationship. Who knows, it could work out at some point but right now you need to get your head straight.
He is probably feeling uncomfortable and insecure to hear about your ex all the time. Asking him to accept the fact that you want your ex more than him is unfair. How would it make you feel?
Sounds like you need a friend not a boyfriend right now.
2006-08-27 09:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by Bright Eyed Zee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to worry about that. If the current boyfriend doesn't accept that you are still in love with your ex just stop seeing the current bf! Don't answer his calls and don't go anywhere with him.
2006-08-27 08:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him photos of you and your ex together.
2006-08-27 08:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to "piss off"..."wake up and smell the coffee"...."scram"...or words to that effect !!!
2006-08-27 08:59:32 · answer #6 · answered by tinkerbell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋