ok its simple just try to follow .. i had a crush on a friend of mine 2 monthes ago but nothing happened meybe because he didn't want me that way or maybe just because he's having some issues in his life at the time .. anyway another friend on mine that know the fierst friend told me about the same time that he like me .. he's over sea's now but we chat allot .. both guys don't know about the other .. what should i do ? is it wrong that am not telling the one who said he like me that i liked another person !!
2006-08-27 01:34:36 · 19 answers · asked by need to know 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not wrong at all.As you said its just a crush.A phase in your life.The first guy must have responded in a positive way but he failed to do so.Its his bad luck.But the other person has expressed his love for you.Its always best to go in for the pesron who loves you rather than to the person whom you love.The person who loves you will really look after you very well.Anyway its just a crush.In case you want to reveal this,just go ahead.It will make the second one more happy as he will think you are frank and open person.Good luck.
2006-08-27 01:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by rajan kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell both of them the whole situation before its too late.. u might lose both of them and i think u dont want that... and dont put alot on a relationship over seas because it might end f* up.. simply because u 2 will have such a big differ in life... anyways... just go for the one u like more... ur own choice... mwah good luck
2006-08-27 08:41:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should not say anything to your friend that likes you, just keep being friends and see if anything developes with the friend you like. If nothing happens you still have both as friends and no one is hurt.
2006-08-27 08:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by bigblkcute 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
until and unless, you are committed to someone, you have all the right in the world to have feelings for as many people as you want and as much as you want. and also, it is your choice to decide your course of action and life. nobody needs to know all thats happening to you. if a guy tells you he likes you, no one else needs to know about it. (unless you have a boyfriend and u also responded positively to the other guy, this is cheating.)
in this case, u r not wrong... so chill and enjoy life and liking people and people liking you ;)
2006-08-27 08:44:54 · answer #4 · answered by publically_private 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not committed to anyone. It's your business. If you don't want to tell. But then if you get serious with both guys that's a different story. You would have to make up your mind to which one you want.
2006-08-27 08:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The worst that can happen is that you have to find a 3rd guy whent he first two find out about each other....worse things have happened. You do need a lot of attention, don't you?
2006-08-27 08:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you talking to the other guy but you need to make sure he knows where you stand with the first guy. Good Luck!!
2006-08-27 08:41:23 · answer #7 · answered by beautifulstars 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you married to either one are you serious with any of them if the answer is no to both then whats the problem .....until one becomes what you want then that's a different story.....enjoy your life don't settle for what your not sure of....
2006-08-27 08:42:03 · answer #8 · answered by JustCurious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not unless you aren't doing anything with the one who said he liked you. If you are, then you are leading him on.
2006-08-27 08:39:59 · answer #9 · answered by trombonegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it and you will be viewed as a butt sl*t, or you can just stay with 1 guy.
2006-08-27 08:38:35 · answer #10 · answered by E10 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋