I've been seeing my girlfriend for nearly 4 years now and she's graduated University, but I still have another year left on my course. We both live with our respective parents.
I really wish I could have graduated this year so we could think about actually buying a place together and start living our lives, but I can't yet because I have to finish my education.
I'm just worried that we'll be forced to live as teenagers, which would effectively drift us apart. When I visited her at her place at Uni, it felt like we lived under our rules, whereas here, we both know we have to back to our houses.
Can a long term relationship stand this, or am I being too impatient? It's a really weird question. What should I do?
2006-08-27 01:32:50 · 8 answers · asked by Tommy H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Firsr of all, I think it is WONDERFUL that you are putting your career first and finishing college. You two have been together this long...one more year will not kill your relationship. If you really love each other, you will stick it out for one more year, then you guys can be together. Be patient...it will all fall together. If this is the woman you want to marry, then why don't you get engaged and then when you are finished with school, you can get married, buy a house and live together respectfully as man and wife.
2006-08-27 01:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by Author Al 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be patient, if its meant to be it , you will make it threw this next year, which really isnt that long of a time if u think about it. use this time to get it together, saving money, buying stuff you might need, looking around the area you are both intrested in. heck im 34, if i could move back in with mom, (not worring bout bills, mortgage, food, lights water ect. ect... ) id do it in a heart beat! once you get in the real world, you will understand, and hopfully be glad you had this time to get it together.
2006-08-27 01:38:24 · answer #2 · answered by ruby_71572 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the relationship can survive. All you have to do is balance the amount of time you spend under restrictions with that of which you don't. And besides, if she loves you, or just really likes you, she'll wait. Good luck!
2006-08-27 01:37:30 · answer #3 · answered by trombonegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ! you are impatient. Certainly it can survive. It is all depends on how strong and deep your love is for each other. It should not be a problem at all. Good luck.
2006-08-27 01:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by dotab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you sit down with each other and outline the goals, angling towards moving out and understand what you have to do in the meantime (in regards to school and the living situation) you can do it
2006-08-27 01:35:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is love in this picture, it can stand strong no more what comes in your way. But it might take some hudles to go through.But you and your girl can do it.....
2006-08-27 01:39:27 · answer #6 · answered by Lala42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man i really dont know nothing about this crap im only 15 but dont give up man if she really loves you your relationship will survive and dont be impatiant you know this will give you more time to get to know her but dont ever give up
2006-08-27 01:39:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea sure
2006-08-27 01:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋