help please, I need to know if I should call him, or do something about it. I love him so much and this hurts.
2006-08-27 01:03:17 · 15 answers · asked by shortskirtmakeitwork 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
love shouldnt hurt, and he dosnt trust you, can you imagine what it would be like to be in love with someone who trust you and dosnt hurt you? thats what it is supose to be, personally, id get rid of him if you have to explain ur self all the time, it wont get better
2006-08-27 01:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by ruby_71572 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he thinks you are cheating and he won't listen there really isn't much you can do. You may very well love the guy, but if he believes you are unfaithful then you might be better off with someone who trusts you. He has admitted he doesn't trust you by saying that he thinks you are cheating on him, and trust is a big part of a healthy relationship. His loss, not yours.
2006-08-27 08:10:48 · answer #2 · answered by Paul H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can use all or some of the techniques in the answers you've gotten. While you do that, think of this question. How would you like to have a relationship with a person who won't listen to you about ANYTHING you need want, desire, or need? You are selling yourself short in this deal. Yep it hurts and the hurt will continue as long as you are in relationship with him. Communication comes first,then the other things.
2006-08-27 08:37:39 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is what I would do. I would sternly put my foot down and tell him that if he thinks you are cheating on him and have no trust in you whatsoever, he needs to go find himself another girlfriend. I know it may not be the instinctive thing to say to him, but you need to test him on whether or not he truly trusts you.
2006-08-27 08:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thrust is the base of any relationship. With no thrust there is no long term relation. I have been there and I have to tell you this woun`t go away so easy. Try reasoning with him but do not expect to make wonders! If he is the gealous type he will not get over it so easily. I know that love is blind but I suggest to get over him.
2006-08-27 08:21:42 · answer #5 · answered by stephan rs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he is acting this way in order to break up with you. Stay away from him, he doesn't deserve your love. There is someone much better for you out there, just wait. You'll be happy. Don't bother with someone who hurts you in any way.
2006-08-27 08:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have given him no reason to think you are cheating, his accusations are really about his own mind. Listen carefully he is telling you a great deal about HIMSELF.
2006-08-27 08:08:09 · answer #7 · answered by YahooGuru2u 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when one person keeps accusing the other of cheating, it is because they are cheating, and if they are cheating they automatically want to believe you are as well.
2006-08-27 08:07:31 · answer #8 · answered by Harley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just insecure. Try to reassure him. Talk without arguing. There is a little chance that he'll change, but if he doesn't, and you want to keep the relationship, you'll have lots of heartaches.
2006-08-27 08:10:13 · answer #9 · answered by elgil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if that's the case. . . 1st ask yourself why is he thinking those things over you? maybe u've done something that lead him to doubt on you. . . if you really love him then prove him wrong. . . don't let your pride hinder your way! go girl!
2006-08-27 08:10:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋