I think they need a reality shock. They need to be there for their child now. Once that child was born everything should have been put to the child and the baby should be #1 priority. It should be all about the baby now and it's needs. Nothing matters now about the parents "partying" needs. They made a choice and now they have to deal with the consequences. They are obviously too young to be responsible. The child needs it parents. We see kids having kids. Good luck.
2006-08-27 01:06:10
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answered by Emma 2
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In the same way people need a driving license to drive, your situation makes me think that really people should be required to get a 'license' for being parents.
If the girl is being that childish and dishonest. She's already not thinking in the best interest of the child. Having a child is a real responsibility. If she's not prepared to raise a child - remember she has to then stop being a child herself and be an adult - then consider other options, such as giving away the child for adoption.
Honestly, at 15 and 17 yrs of age, very few people are ready for the responsibility of children.
Please tell your friend to reconsider her situation and talk to a trusted counsellor/teacher/adult friend.
Good luck.
2006-08-27 01:10:16
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answered by JoseK 1
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It honestly sickens me.. I am 15 and I could never EVER imagine having a child at my age.. that is just so irresponsible After all we are still KIDS and to have a kid have a baby is just sooooooo wrong. She is not ready to be a mother or care for a child of her own.. no matter how mature she is NO 15 or 17 year old for the matter is ready to have a baby. ANd the whole situation with new gfs and bfs.. they are so messed up.. I'll pray for the sluts..
2006-08-27 01:04:05
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answered by Anonymous
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i'm able to inform you from firsthand journey that it truly is an exceptionally no longer uncomplicated subject to do, yet it is likewise the main invaluable subject besides. i grew to become into pregnant with my first baby at 15, had him while i grew to become into sixteen. needless to say, his organic and organic father has under no circumstances even set eyes on him. In a fashion, it truly is a blessing, because of the fact he grew to become into an exceptionally irresponsible individual. some might believe that i grew to become into additionally irresponsible for procuring pregnant, inspite of the undeniable fact that it truly is something that i will under no circumstances remorseful approximately. All of my toddlers (I certainly have 4) are what makes my existence the ideal i might desire to ask for. specific, we had some no longer uncomplicated circumstances and struggles, yet there are various "grown" father and mom that do besides. the only subject my toddlers under no circumstances lacked grew to become into love and interest. My toddlers at the instant are 22, 20, 13 & 11. the two oldest ones graduated intense college. My 20 12 months previous is in her 2nd 12 months of faculty. To me, it truly is adulthood, no longer age it is the actual subject. Immaturity exists in any respect age, earnings and social status levels.
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answered by Anonymous
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Sounds to me like someone was not ready to be parents.Are they taking care of the child-support-love-food? dangerous thing to tell someone they are the father when they are not.Watch out!
2006-08-27 01:00:47
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answered by StupidinMt 1
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Not only are you two waaay to young to be having kids, you are both being irresponsible as people. You should be concerned now with raising that kid and being good role models for them. Such as.
2006-08-27 01:03:02
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answered by davester1970 7
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I think that teen parents should be more concerned with raising a child than dating!
2006-08-27 01:00:24
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answered by Clark W Griswold 4
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Things like this make me fearful for the future of mankind. It kills me that you need a liscense to drive, bartend, scuba dive, hunt, or own a firearm, but anyone can reproduce.
2006-08-27 01:01:21
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answered by Gregie 4
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They should have some pretty good stories to tell when they all grow up.
2006-08-27 01:00:26
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answered by master_der_man 6
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Glad its not me!
2006-08-27 01:10:04
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answered by skybound767 4
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