Why is it?

Question

Why is it that all the idiots/abusers get these nice, thoughtful, wonderful women and a nice guy like me is unable to get a good, caring, wonderful, woman. Doesn't a young lady like a nice guy? By the way....I don't like calling women....women...I prefer to call them young ladies.

Answer 1

i think that so many young ladies are to nieve (spelling?) to see what is right in front of them. Not all of us are like so just keep looking you'll find the one you want.Bye!!

Answer 2

Here is where the nice guys get it all wrong. I speak from experience. Being nice to a woman is not the same as being ROMANTIC and BOLD. Don't get me wrong. I am not saying that being nice to a woman isn't important, but do not confuse the two.

Most women who end up with the "bad boys" are usually imature or were brought up in a household where dad was abusive and cold towards them and their mother. As a result, many grow up thinking that is the way men are supposed to be. Usually after being mistreated and abused by the bad boys, they seek out Mr. Nice Guy.

Also Mr. Bad Boy on the surface tend to exude an aura of fun and confidence. That doesn't last long. Mr. Nice Guy tends to not have any balls or give off any airs that he is secure with himself. Take heart young man. If you are thoughtful, kind, courteous, and everything wonderful you espouse, you will find willing ladies who will flock to your side.

You gotta learn how to be charming, romantic, and flirtatious.

Answer 3

I'm not sure you know what you mean, but most women like good guys. Even if some go for the idiot ones, then forget 'em. They were not worth it.

Answer 4

its much easier to just be a jerk

better than havin a jerk

Answer 5

i know it may seem that way but isn't always the case

Answer 6

boggles the mind, doesn't it? my advise is keep trying, don't change, and one will come around.