Is it a big deal taking a girls virginity? Does it put extra pressure on a guy?
2006-08-26 22:52:48 · 26 answers · asked by butterfly_angelmarie321 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because by taking a girls virginity is like a trophy to many guys and bragging rights. Its not often that a guy can be the first one to have sex with a girl. Its preasure because guys make it a competition. I think its sick and wrong. I have some friends that are like this.
2006-08-26 22:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by KrazyK784 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes it is a big deal. but i wouldnt say anymore pressure for the guy at all. all guys want a virgin, because they know no other guy has been there before, whether they are skirt chasing or not (MOST ARE) to be a virgin is to be pure, and most guys wants to marry a virgin, because that makes sex special. besides if the girl is a virgin the guy wouldn't have to worry about how long ago she had sex (the thought of another guys member inside of her is sickening) this is why guys dont like promiscuous girls for anything but a one nightstand...and you'll get so much more respect from guys if you stay a virgin (no locker room talk, you know how a whole school finds out and it ruins a girls reputation)
2006-08-27 06:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you,
I don't know if I'd call it a bid deal. I wouldn't find any extra pressure. However, as mentioned before, it should be a big deal for for the girl. I would make sure she's comfortable and wants whatever I could give her. Being her first time, she should be in control.
2006-08-27 06:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do make alot of studies on many subjects by myself throughout my life and though i never did try to make experiment by myself physically on this term as if you wish to know a more superstitious answer for it is that its from many culture and believe that a man can actually extract a certain life energy from a girl and more especially it from a virgin, but it do come with a risk for those who doesn't know will eventually kill themselves by accidentally reverted their life energy for the girl yet for a true couple that not only united their body but their heart and soul as well are able to make an unbelievable fusion of energy.
and as for the more physical approach answer boys, man, young or old does consider a big deal went taking a girl virginity as though they are the first person who put their national flag on the moon or a guy who has win over a game and concern about the extra pressure, male species are self-proclaim and believe genetically design dominant creature, so the pressure is actually on the girls mentally and the guys physically.
2006-08-27 06:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by marxice21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is if you are very young and the boy just does it when you guys are still young thou but if the girl and the male are both old enough to watch over theyre own lives then its pretty okay That the guy tok the girls virginity... Sometimes if you are too young the boy gets a lot of pressure, Of course ive never tried that before
2006-08-27 06:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I probably am not the right person to answer this for you but here we go anyway. The importance of being a virgin is for the girl only. Usually boys could care less...they just want to lay, and they don't really care who they lay with(unless its the girl he marries, then of course he want to be the one and only, whether he is deserving or not). Now if the girl is a virgin, then for the most part it gives them a special conquest to talk about among their friends. If there is any pressure they feel , its short lived...the main objective is still(as I've said before) to get laid.
Maybe you're not ready for the cold hard facts. I am not trying to be harsh or cynical...I am merely being honest. From this I hope you have a better understanding of what the mass majority of boys are really like. What ever is you choice in men and/or life...always keep your dignity and maintain your self respect. Never let anyone run your life. "To thine ownself be true".
2006-08-27 06:15:41 · answer #6 · answered by Robere 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends. It has traditionally been viewed that way, yes. But it's up to the girl to decide how much importance she places on it, and for her to communicate with the man she's with how important she feels the event will be. For some people, it's a huge rite of passage; for other women I've met, it was treated in the same way as the first time they skinned a knee, or broke a bone; something to be remembered, but not particularly eventful other than as a physical occurrance. So, decide for yourself how important it is, and then decide who you'd like to lose it to, and let them know how you'd like to treat it, whether as a big deal, or as no big thing.
Good luck, and either way, make sure it's what you want--not what he wants; that's the most important part. :)
2006-08-27 05:57:13 · answer #7 · answered by mpetach 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES and YES
Women build up that moment to the extreme. Many women consider the loss of virginity the entry into adulthood.
I defy anyone to find a woman that has difficulty describing the first time she had sex.
Women want to look back on this moment with memories that mirror a romance novel.
2006-08-27 06:15:55 · answer #8 · answered by john a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its a big deal to get the virgin girl in the competition of guys. Rest it doent put any pressure on guys.
Because guys only wanna enjoy that fun.
Its rather other way around, gal is under pressure whom to she is losing virginity.
As no one forget the first kiss, same no girl forgets that first person whom to she has lost her virginty.
So act smartly.
2006-08-27 06:31:23 · answer #9 · answered by Dream-with-me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because the girl is a virgin and the guy should take extra care of her so tht the girl is not hurt anywhere
2006-08-27 05:55:27 · answer #10 · answered by rishabh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋