ive been w/ this guy for already almost 1 1/2 yrs just about a 1yr ago he started 2 punch himself and threaten 2 kill himself whenever hed get mad & hed blame me..till this day he still does this once in awhile..& it seems as if its starting to get worse..at 1 point he threatened 2 cut himself with a blade.another time i tried to drive away but i stupidly left the window down & he clung onto my car..another time he took my chin & made me watch him choke himself..all i could do was cry he told me he wants 2 try 2 stop doing this he attended some anger management classes but he doesnt seem so consistent when it comes 2 attendance..he hasnt done it in awhile but im still scared itll happen any day now he also hates it when i drink even occassionally he broke up w/ me over that..but he still tries to act as if were still together he even got jealous over his dog! he said i talked about it too much. everything else seems perfect cept his anger i deno what 2 do. sounds stupid but i love him
2006-08-26 22:16:38 · 22 answers · asked by princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea may be he honestly has a mental problem or could be he wants attention i know you usually hear about this kind of things in kids because what they want attention so may be that's what it is but either way i would say he needs some physiological help
2006-08-26 22:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by Manda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doll, this is very unhealty and though he is not hitting you or anything it is an abusive relationship that you need to leave immediatley. He is hurting you mentally and it will eventually turn physical. Believe me, it will happen again. Seek counseling sweetie to get out while you are still alright . The love will not matter if you are hurting.
2006-08-26 22:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by BeautyMark 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is mentally sick. and needs medical help.He has suicidal tendency.You prove an oft said quote " love is blind" You do not know but you do not love him - you pity him.Some day when you are alone with him and you not agree with on some petty matter he will hurt you seriously.What was happening that made him angry with dog ihope it not some intimate action . Leave him he is MAD.
2006-08-26 22:32:28 · answer #3 · answered by shribharatpshubh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he reminds me of King Kong.. good movie.
I say leave him.. else you are just as sick in the mind for falling for a psycho.
He needs psychological help. He probably came from a broken family. Its his fight.. not yours. He will drag you down with him.
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2006-08-26 22:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by Guy w/ Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to tell you this is not just an anger issue.
He has a disorder,one that brings him to hate or hurt himself.
This is very serious! he needs to see a good professional
and possibly some medicine to correct an imbalance in his brain.
(It's not really safe to be around him,he could suffer a breakdown)
2006-08-26 22:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
you know you can still love a person from a distance. this person has a attention problem. when he didn't get his way when he was a kid he threatened himself and his parents gave into it. he's f**cked up mentally. he needs mental help and you need to leave.
yet again another person putting themselves in harms way for love. don't any of people have brains?
2006-08-26 22:44:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is hitting and hurting himself to stop himself from hitting you! but one day this will change. when it does, everyone that ever said to you 'leave him', or 'get outta there', would say 'told you so'. He is a loose canon just waiting to go off... leave him, forget him... these options are easier now than later from a hospital bed! or worse a morgue. good luck... Tom
2006-08-26 22:34:02 · answer #7 · answered by tom p 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's not love sweety - it's pity - get out now while you can.
I have seen relationships like this and nothing positive will come of it - be sensible act with your head on this one - he has serious problems and soon they will also be your problems if you don't get out!
Life is too short to be caught up in this type of situation, be kind to yourself and life will be kind to you also!
Good luck
2006-08-26 22:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by krompette 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he sound like a normal person to you? Feel lucky you aren't married to him. Break up with him and stay as far away as you can from him. He has serious problems that I don't think will be solved very soon.
2006-08-26 22:21:30 · answer #9 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he needs more than Anger Management.
2006-08-26 22:22:06 · answer #10 · answered by Steve-O 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋