2006-08-26 22:10:04 · 9 answers · asked by shiku 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i saw some photos of the woman in his laptop and i didn't think that she was anyone. i had no idea. then my mom was so stressed and then i asked her what was up. she told me everything and i could not believe it. then i had my aunt discussing the issue with my mom and thats when i realised that it was all true. i thought of talking to him but i want to stay out of it.....should i?
2006-08-26 22:39:24 · update #1
It's no use. Stay out of it.
2006-08-26 22:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
YA MOST DEFINITELY!!..CONFRONT HIM....ANSD SAY ARE YOU NOT ASHAMED OF YOURSELF....IF YOUR MOM DOES'NT KNOW TELL HER..STAND BY HER IN ALL SITUATIONS..
ACTUALLY HE DOES NOT DESERVE TO BE A FATHER...BUT THEN IF HE IS THE HEAD...HE HAS THE FINANCIAL POWER...SO THE APPROACH HAS TO BE A BIT TAMED..BUT YOUR OPPOSITION SHOULD BE MADE TO HIM RIGHT AWAY....SHOULD SHOW AN INDIFFERENT ATTITUDE...STOP LISTENING AND TALKING TO HIM.....
HE SHOULD BE MADE CLEAR THAT HE HAS DONE A WRONG THING AND YOU WON'T FORGIVE HIM...
BUT MOST IMPORTANT IS TO SUPPORT YOUR MOM...SHE THE ONE ACTUAALLY CHEATED...SO MAKE HER FEEL SPECIAL..MAKE HER FEEL THAT THERE IS SOMEONE WHO WILLL TAKE CARE OF HER,STAND BY HER WHATEVER MAY COME...BE STRENGTH OF YOUR MOM AND LET HER DECIDE THE NEXT ACTION AND YOU SHOULD SUPPORT HER ALL THE WAY!!
BUT CONFRONT YOUR DAD RIGHT AWAY..DON'T LET HIM GO!!
2006-08-27 05:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by METICULOUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes both are still your parents reguardless of how they feel about each other i learned that my dad is a ladies man but a damn good father so just because he is bad at being a husband doesnt mean he cant be a wonderful father
2006-08-27 06:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by SLICK77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ... but be careful not to judge him until after you have let him know what you have found out... look for the bigger picture, don't go at him all guns blazing! Good luck
2006-08-27 05:15:46 · answer #4 · answered by tom p 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not? I did that once....was told 'that's none of your business!" My parents sorted out their problem without my help or concern through the courts. ps..they didnt want my input until 'after' the divorce. My advise: try not to take sides.
2006-08-27 05:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
that would sound like the sweet idea but i would talk to him and tell him that it is wrong that if he dont want to be with your mom to leave her im sure she would reither him do that than cheat on her i would just say put your self in your moms shoes
2006-08-27 05:14:46 · answer #6 · answered by Manda 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If that happened in my family, I would beat the snot out of him. You don't do stuff like that when you have kids together
2006-08-27 05:14:07 · answer #7 · answered by deanster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the situation. does your mom know?? did you catch your dad?? if you feel really bad about what he did,,, then its best you TALK to him about it. talk night aurgue and fight and let him know about your feelings on this
2006-08-27 05:13:40 · answer #8 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's their problem u should not be in between marital problems, unless they ask your opinion.
2006-08-27 05:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋