is homosexyality really somthing you born with or somthing you chose?

Answer 1

something you choose or develop through those around you. chilren are not born homosexual

Answer 2

Hey im a homo, I was born this way and I wouldnt change it for the world. I am not mentally retarded, I am not lazy, I am not in any way shape or form different to anyone else, I have just as much morals than everyone else, I pay my taxes like everyone else, I have a good education like most people, I have a very steady and responsible job and I love and care just the same way as everyone else. So what that I have sex with other females, does this make me less a person?

Answer 3

Isn't there a Homosexuality forum that would be more suitable for this question? Anyway, I believe both instances are true. Some are born that way and some are influenced by outside circumstances.

Answer 4

The people who are saying you choose to be gay and that it is a sin are straight people who know nothing about it. If you continue to listen to them you will continue to hate your life.

Please find a gay-friendly counselor and / or a gay and lesbian support group in your area (telephone book). You really need to learn to accept yourself as God made you and get all of that sin out of your mind. You are a wonderful child of God no matter if you are straight or gay. Never allow someone else to tell you how "bad" you are. You are GOOD.

I am 50 years old and I have gone through what you are going through. I found a support group when I was about 17 and it helped me so much. I have gone through my life as a gay man and have been very happy.

You can be too. Do not give up. It's not all that bad. It's just scary at first, but hopefully you will be able to find someone you can talk to that will be supportive in your younger years.

Ask God for "support".
You need to go through what you are going through right now so you can be there for someone else when they go through this.
Kinda like me right now.!!!!!

Answer 5

I believe some people are born that way and some develop their feeling and choose to be, for a variety of reasons. some men are undeniably women in a mans body and probably vice versa!

Answer 6

what, didn't this question show up as being asked a hundred times already?
Look, homosexuality exists even in ANIMALS. So.... ya think they "chose" to be that way? Animals are *all natural*. They were created that way. Why can't you all get it through your thick skulls that some people are made that way too?

Answer 7

fad b,
I think that it is different reasons for different people. I think that all reasons are possible. But I also think that in the scheme of things it doesn't matter. You can be if you want to, some are born into it.
It's terrible for some and they can't seem to break it, and it's the best thing to happen to others.

Answer 8

can be from many things. some people might be born with it while others are influenced by their surroundings or choose to be a homosexual. there is no definite answer for this, juz generalization of what has been going on.

Answer 9

You can choose to deny homosexuality.Our scociety is giving credence to more sins everyday.Letting ppl think it is normal,when it is an abomination to God & nature.
The more a habit is accepted,the more ppl will take it up!
Laziness causes alot of this behaviour also.It's easier to be a kept homo,than go get a job & raise a family.
Alot of this behaviour is caused by some sort of trauma in childhood also.These poor ppl are mentally disturbed & need our help & compassion.

Answer 10

Your either born an adam or an eve. With and inny or an outty. God had it right in the first place. Its our free will thats trippin us up!

Youve heard God made adam n eve not adam n steve, right?

Peace! :)

Answer 11

I agree with celina8388,I think a baby is born that way.