It's her car and she won't let me drive. And I have no choice but to risk my life. If I refuse to get on, she acts like a b****
2006-08-26 21:34:45 · 14 answers · asked by Vitamin C 2 in Cars & Transportation ➔ Commuting
i wish i had an answer for you ....you see the problem your having----i'm having also!!!!!!! with my husband. it really f___s my day up & then he turns it around on me like i'm being rediculous......OH WELL GOOD LUCK TO YOU MY FRIEND!!!! i'll be thinking of you- - - your not alone- - -
2006-08-26 21:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now.......you didn't say why you are afraid??? Is this just a thing with you and women drivers or what or is this a thing with your gf's driving ability??
If its just a thing with women drivers in general then start walking, drive by yourself, get over it or grow up.
If its a thing with your gf's driving abilty and a legit complaint then thats something you will need to discuss with her with care.
I'm glad all men don't feel like you do if its in the first case - this past spring I went to an awards ceremony which was about 2 hours away from my home. There were 5 of us going - myself and 4 guys. We were to take the bosses car (who was not attending because he was ill). We had to go over to the bosses house to pick up his car. They all climbed in my vehicle to go get the car and then when we go there the tossed me the keys to the bosses car and said *You Drive*. This was a mix of younger and older men and I had never driven with them before - but they also knew I had driven many places.
Don't be scared of women drivers - there is no reason. There are jerks in both sexes behind the wheel.
2006-08-26 21:50:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel she is honestly not a good enough driver for you to ride with (a FULLY understandable complaint, i wont ride with more than 50% of my friends, and if it were up to me, 90% of drivers wouldnt have their liscence with how they drive), then make that very clear to her. Make sure she understands its not a trust issue, but a safety one, and express your genuine concern. If she doesnt recognize your sincerity, then shes a moron.
and refuse to ride with her. she may get mad at you, but if shes going to break up with you for something so stupid, then chances are it wasnt going to work out anyways.
and to the person that said dont be worried because she has her liscence: Thats hardly proof you can drive. if youre 18 and can sign your name you can get a liscence. hardly qualification.
driving safety isnt looked at close enough. I lost 3 of my best friends earlier this year due to an accident. 3000+ pound vehicles are lethal weapons. you wouldnt let someone you felt unqualified play with a gun around you, would you? Exact same situation.
2006-08-26 22:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by Kyle M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by refusing to get in your girlfriend car you are as much as saying to her i don,t trust her driving that,s why she s getting annoyed with you, you don,t give your reasons for not wanting to get in the car when she driving other then you are scared , if your g/f is a good driver why be scared , i think its a macho thing on with you , if so then its you who acts like a b****
2006-08-26 21:53:51 · answer #4 · answered by lizella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Juz act in front of her as if u wanna drive the car if she says u 2 drive den ok if not try other ways like askin/telling her dat u can drive like racer/sumthin else if these dont work den contact me.
2006-08-26 21:42:02 · answer #5 · answered by cool_pal2chat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geez - I attempt perplexing to no longer choose, yet wow. Did you apart from mght no longer have your license? So now your sister is watching getting fined for no longer having a license or insurance? and you pled to blame as her? So she would not comprehend she has a courtroom date, and given your music checklist you will very probable fail to tell her approximately this courtroom date and then she would have a warrant out for her arrest. And nevertheless, nevertheless now when you have finished all of this on your sister your purely problem is your self. you won't be able to circulate to reformatory because of the fact of YOUR difficulty. i assume its greater useful to your sister to ought to stand reformatory precise? i do no longer even comprehend the type you will possibly restoration this, pleading to blame by utilising letter regularly ability that the infraction is logged into some mysterious pc device someplace it is run by utilising courtroom workers. attempting to get them to make a transformation interior the pc device exceedingly lots takes an act of congress. You have been of course hoping that she would not get a courtroom date and which you will possibly have the capacity to easily plead to blame pretending to be her and it would leave. i'm sorry yet you're fairly a poor guy or woman. i desire your sister shows out with regard to the courtroom date and you get indicted for fraud and mendacity to a police officer. i desire your sister data expenses against you. i do no longer think of i ought to ever document expenses against my sister, yet my sister isn't the snake which you're.
2016-09-30 22:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with a woman driver? Come on, it's not like an alien is on the wheel. I can see bad male drivers every day.
2006-08-26 21:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by dds502 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your own car and pick her up and drive, if shes not afraid to ride with you driving of course. Or you can use public transportation together.
2006-08-26 21:37:26 · answer #8 · answered by FoudaFaFa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're just acting childish! if she has a drivers license, then theres no reason why it should be life-threatening for you ´to get in the car. just relax!
2006-08-26 21:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by wad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you have a trust issue about your g/f driving ability but thats ok so do i but i have a reason for mine do you with her???
you need to suck it up and jump in that is what i do its her car not yours
2006-08-26 22:03:00 · answer #10 · answered by grey_wolf54486 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋