What does it mean wen a guy is rele flirty with u n u 2 are all over echotah n stuff den a few days later ur cuddlin n stuff (and also a nite r so ago he told his best mate he fancied u) ur mate goes n tells him u like him n he doesnt say anythin back and basicully doesnt say a word to u the rest of the nyt and flirts with her madly infront of u.. then u find out she likes him and he now has told his best mate he likes her instead?? what can I do? its really hurt me and ive been crying all night and morning over them. PLEASE HELP
2006-08-26 21:34:39 · 11 answers · asked by hannah m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's some childish stuff that they pulled, but count your blessings that you found out so quick that they were both flakes. I don't mean any offense, but you sound kind of young and I have a feeling that both of them (and you) are still trying to figure out how the whole dating thing works. You're in about high school maybe? People make a lot of cruel mistakes at that age. Your friend is probably insecure and needs a 'victory' of some sort to make her feel worthwhile. As for the guy, he's desperate for as much girl interaction as he can get to prove his manhood and whatnot. Trust me, before long everyone will have moved on. Your best bet is to cry as much as you can now, and then just move on. Don't let them score more points by showing them how much you were hurt.....and then turn around and get one of his nicer, better looking friends.
2006-08-26 21:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like an a**. How old is he? Boys/men are always at least 4 years behind a girl/woman in maturity.
It has nothing to do with you, he's just on the prowl for any gals he can meet. It sounds like he doesn't care about your feelings at all. But don't be jealous over this new girl, because I guarentee he will do the same thing to her and flirt with a third girl.
You need to dump him (it's better than being dumped, trust me!) and find someone better.
2006-08-27 04:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read, Little one
I was once that guy. I left a girl for another girl. Later that other girl got married and the first called to check on me. That was 2 years ago. I wish I could find the first now.
you made me cry
23/m/tx
2006-08-27 04:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by Susan S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl! Please save your soul and heart and run away from him.. I started a relationship with one like that and now I'm ruined crying all the time without reason to live.. They really don't care about us, our tears wouldn't touch them but it is impossible to forget.. Find another normal guy and be happy while you still can..
2006-08-27 05:23:34 · answer #4 · answered by ssagittarius78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heres the answer for real, he is being a c.ck tease, so play the same game... two wrongs never make a right but it will either work and he will go for you, or you will just feel good cause you gave him a bit of hell back... guys love chicks her flirt but are hard to get...
2006-08-27 04:38:25 · answer #5 · answered by Henry viii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh girl, he's just another player like other guys out there, find a better man!! don't stick around and let him treat a fine woman like that. >:O
2006-08-27 04:37:53 · answer #6 · answered by AppleSoda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he may be trying to get u to realize he doesnt want to be withg u anymore by being that way...or maybe he just has a flirty personality. think about it
2006-08-27 04:38:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it unless you want join the forces... "yuk".... dont cry over that "crap"..... he is only trying to be in "conrol" of "U" be "ok" with yourself.... tell"THEM" TO TAKE A " HIKE......... SO THAT YOU CAN FIND A "REAL" partner"!!!!!!!! one -on- one...... SITUATION... not the "HEAD" GAME" SITUATION.... TAKE CARE OF "Ur' SELF "OK".....
2006-08-27 04:47:40 · answer #8 · answered by deenishia1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well baby ..
you have to gave up with him ...
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2006-08-27 04:39:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy obviously wants to make you jealous. i'd try to talk it out with him. and ask him what's wrong.
2006-08-27 04:37:54 · answer #10 · answered by Brittany 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋