All of a sudden she says she has these convictions from God. We have been living together and all of a sudden she says that she still wants to date me, but wwe can't have sex until we are married.
I think that since she started it that way that she should keep it going that way and care about how I feel.
I mean what is just a little while longer of having sex? No big deal right? God will forgive her? We are getting married soon so she should just keep having sex with me.
2006-08-26 21:31:36 · 24 answers · asked by joe man 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
If you love her you will respect her wishes and wait until after the wedding.
You have a hand don't you?
2006-08-26 21:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by georgia1980 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Multiple choice answer. She is either:
A. Trying to get you to marry her sooner
B. Bored with having sex with you and thinks a break might make it more exciting
C. Has gained / regained some moral ground, in which case you may no longer be the right person for her
2006-08-27 04:46:05 · answer #2 · answered by - 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't get mad! Holding off on sex is not a bad idea. If all your thinking about is that, then why are you getting married? Get to know her better and then you will understand why she wants to wait. You might lose her if you don't respect her...
I hope all turns out for you and congrats.
2006-08-27 04:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she should have thought about all this before she took her clothes off. She is old enough to know right from wrong and God's word so maybe she is just looking for a easy way out of the relationship. If I was you I think I would be a little suspicious of her doings now. Think twice about marrying her right away.
2006-08-27 04:37:49 · answer #4 · answered by Board 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Wrong answer ! If you're going to marry this woman, you need to take her convictions seriously . As you said,"what is just a little while longer?" Don't be so selfish. It's important to her so it should be important to you.
2006-08-27 04:43:33 · answer #5 · answered by S.A.M. Gunner 7212 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, way to respect her beliefs and convictions. You must really care about her and not just you two having sex. Please don't marry her. She deserves somebody that will actually value her as herself rather than if she gives out or not. Seriously, you can learn to keep your ******* dick in your pants. I feel sorry for her.
2006-08-27 04:40:24 · answer #6 · answered by Jaded 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you forreal.... This might be an indication that she realy isnt the one for you. I told my live in boyfriend that I wasnt gonna have sex with him anymore because the Lord didnt approve of pre marital sex and to his defense through all teh crap we have been through he is still here with me and still loves me and everything... it's as if nothing changed. If you really loved her then you would honor her choice....if you dont really love her then you would leave now and not string her along....
2006-08-27 04:36:56 · answer #7 · answered by comingofage03 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
lol you said she's had a three way b4 and now she wants to be clean until she's married? you're just pulling our legs
P.S. if she does sincerely want to remain unsexed until she is married then that means that she has morals, even as late as it is you should respect them, or she could be cheating on you having more threesomes. lol
2006-08-27 04:37:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you want her in your life then if i were you i would listen to what she asks. If you cant bear the fact of not having sex then just masturbate.
2006-08-27 04:43:19 · answer #9 · answered by merk4hire518 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Go get married tomorrow.
2006-08-27 04:34:45 · answer #10 · answered by Ken 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋