me and this man are not relly daten were kinda talking i was just wondering he told me that love takes time is that a good thing or a bad im clueless please help asap
2006-08-26 20:50:32 · 16 answers · asked by Manda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
actualy in the best situation it takes time.without the pressure of feeling you have time to know your man and this way your love would be long lasting cause it,s based on your logics not your feelings. some people belive love is like wine, it sould remain until it,s ready and what ever you wait, you make a better one.
2006-08-27 00:06:42 · answer #1 · answered by Mehdi ((sade del)) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The information you give us is not enough to give you a good answer. Also, i don't know him personally to know what he is truly thinking.
He may be a little screwed up in the head to be emotionally distant or he may have a girl he is currently presuing at the moment.
I think he is not ready. Continue to date someone else while you wait. Maybe you can let him know you are. See how he respond. If he doesn't care, i'm pretty sure he is either not into you or he does have someone on the side.
I often tell girls this... "I think people get into a relationship too fast too soon. They didn't get a chance to get to know eachother. Then they start noticing eachother flaws that they didn't expect. They end up resenting eachother because of those flaws and the relationship turn sour."
I think 3 months is a good amount of time for people to get to know eachother.
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2006-08-27 04:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by Guy w/ Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love may happen in an instance.. or may take a lifetime.. but trust in a relationship is what is needed the most.
Love could be at first sight... or a realisation when someone has moved away from you.
What i can guess from your question is that you wish to understand what his words meant for u.. what i can understand is that it cud be a harmless discussion or cud be a hint that he's giving u time and he's already in love with u..
The best would be for you to give time and understand each other.
2006-08-27 03:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by System Wizard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it could honestly be both. It could be good because serious men will take time to fall in love with the right person and not just anyone. But it could also be bad because maybe he is trying to tell you something. I hate it when men say things like this because it leaves you wondering. You just have to figure out if you want to stay there and if it is worth it or not.
2006-08-27 03:54:54 · answer #4 · answered by gm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a good thing.. and a very true thing. Love does take time. I hate it when people go out with someone for like a week and tell them that they love them! They are all idiots. That is a short amount of time, you can't possibly know what love is yet! You have to let love take it's time.. and it has to take it's course. It has to blossom. I know that's all corny, but very true down to the core!
2006-08-27 03:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO true love is ijnstant. The moment I met my husband I knew in my heart and soul that I was in love with him. I was 19 yrs old. we moved in together 3 weeks later and were married within 6 months and have been extremly happily married for the past 12 years. You can see the love we share on my 360 page. Good luck, when it's right you'll know in your heart and soul
2006-08-27 03:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Shortie♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good thing. You don't want to rush into love without knowing for sure that you love the person you're with. A person's feelings get hurt when that happens because one may really love while the other only thought he/she loved the other.
2006-08-27 03:54:21 · answer #7 · answered by Steve-O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is best to take time instead of getting in to something or someone that isn't good for you.
But I also believe that love can sweep you off your feet in a short part of time.
2006-08-27 03:53:41 · answer #8 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love takes a lot of time. You should be careful though.Take care and see well.Love is beautiful....but painful too
2006-08-27 03:55:34 · answer #9 · answered by Achiever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i differ from most of the answers. Some men say that when they are not really into you, and don't know how to say so.
2006-08-27 03:57:55 · answer #10 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋