...and NOT hurt their feelings?
2006-08-26 20:48:44 · 17 answers · asked by High? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be honest.. give them the respect of talking to them and make sure whatever you do, always consider their feelings in everything you say!
2006-08-26 20:52:12 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to break up with someone is sit with them in a public place and tell them the truth. Let them know that you are no longer attracted to them and that you wish them the best of luck with their life.
Breakup is never easy, but this is a very mature way of saying good bye. Atleast the other party would respect you for this method of breakup when they get over the pain.
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2006-08-27 03:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by Guy w/ Answers 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unfortunetly no. you have been connected for a while, so it's imposible to break it without any pain, it's just like a part of your body. it hurt anyway. the best situation is, you have been frank with each other and after the break up you forgive each other.
you know, somethings are hard and scary to begin, but when you start , you'll see it's not as scary as it seems.
I've broken up once and I think the best way is talk to him and tell him why are you doing that, have nnice goodby, and finish it compeletly. don't try to reduce any thing, just finish anything, it'll kill you for some days but after that find a new life. it's just like addiction, you must finish it at once.
2006-08-27 07:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by Mehdi ((sade del)) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry!! breakup with someone always hurt the person u break up with that is really the truth !!u just try to let the person know why u break up with and that u don't hate or anything u just don't feel like u r for each others and that he is a great person to hang with and to be in love with so u let him go and have a real reasons what and why u do break with and wish theperson to get the right one for.
2006-08-27 06:36:08 · answer #4 · answered by joe m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to tell you but there's no easy way to break up with someone without hurting his feelings.
the most that you could do is to tell the person honestly the reasons why you are breaking up with her/him. then, wish the person well and hope that he recovers soon from such a painful experience.
2006-08-27 04:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by smiling face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of them are easy, but just saying it to someone is less painfull than doing what the bastard of my ex did, act like nothing happened and walking in front of my nose with another girl..
Love doesn't last forever but respect should..
2006-08-27 04:19:56 · answer #6 · answered by ssagittarius78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy way i don't think so but there's a way though.... Be friendly and open. Say what the problem is and say why you wanna end all... Al the best
2006-08-27 03:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by Achiever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if htey dont give crap about you to begin with! Otherwise, just be honest but sensitive, tell them as soon as possible, and think of how would you like to be told. Tell him/her in a kind way. And dont parade your new relationship infront of him/her. They will get over it eventually, its life!
2006-08-27 03:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by TrueSoul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Look them in the face and tell them the truth. You will hurt them more by not being honest.
2006-08-27 03:52:53 · answer #9 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is an easy way but feelings get left maimed and wanting bloody vengence no idea otherwise sorry
2006-08-27 03:51:04 · answer #10 · answered by poony!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋