Here is my story:
I am 23 years old and I have never been in a serious relationship. I am very pretty, I have a nice body, I'm smart, I keep myself well, I am very funny, Im domestic, and I am very sweet--a really good catch, for some reason I cant seem to find a guy that I connect with, I am still going through the "the guys that I like, dont like me back" so whats my issue guys...I am at the point in my life where I am giving up, I cant take guys either treating me like crap, or just not calling back, no relationship---nothing--I need some advice, what is it that I can be doing that might be sending guys running in the other direction?
2006-08-26 20:45:22 · 12 answers · asked by Olivia N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you ever considered about online dating? Meeting new guys .. you maybe meeting the wrong ones. I met my husband online, we took things extremely slow and that was the best decision I have ever made. Yahoo Personal is great, my ex husband met his wife there.
Hugs Mel
2006-08-26 20:48:43 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put it this way..
You got the beauty, but not the personality.
You get boyfriends because you are probably beautiful in real life. But they run the other way once they really get to know you.
The answer to your problem is easy...
The problem is either you or the type of guys you are selecting.
When it comes to you.. some problems may reside from:
*The way you are raised. you don't know what you don't have, this is especially true if you come form a disfunctional family. people should stop screwing around because it creates disfunctional families, disfunctional families creates disfunctional society.
*If you conciously feel you are doing nothing wrong, it might be something unconcious. Ask yourself what are some of the pain you had in your past and evaluate them and see if they are destroying your future.
The guys you are choosing:
Most girls l like bad boys. Reason is.. because they are ***** hot and exciting and the alpha male characteristic you need. Well guess what girls..they make lame life partners. Girls are emotional creatures and don't seem to be able to comprehend that logically.
You should go for good boys. and even though they may not be as exciting, they have some very lovable personality traits.
there is a small group of good boys who understands all this.. a good boy who knows how to be bad. they have the goods of both world. I'm one of those and i think it is what all girls are after.
A little about me:
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Ken / Taiwanese, Chinese / 24 / Los Angeles / Pickup Artist
2006-08-27 04:46:08 · answer #2 · answered by Guy w/ Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are probably having a hard time meeting a good guy because your expectations may not be met. You are probably looking for an ideal male and guess what? He is not out there. So just go with the flow, dont stress out. If you are very pretty but are not having any luck, then you may be sending out a vibe that men dont like. Try to find out what that is.
2006-08-27 03:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by gm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys, the ones in your age bracket, want a good time party type one night stands and nothing long term unless it's the high school sweetheart girl. Try a little older than you guy who is looking for that special someone to settle down with girl. Or just enjoy you being single and put your focus into a career. The guy will come along and he will be special to you.
2006-08-27 04:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by really???? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe tone down some of your outgoing character when your approaching a guy. Don't stop doing what you do, just town it down to a bit of serious and especially if you are on a date with the guy. I would think you tend to draw attention from the other guys when your with him and this doesn't set well and the guy you are with will feel like he's not getting all the attention, instead he should be proud he has such a beautiful woman, but who can explain men.
2006-08-27 03:54:21 · answer #5 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe those guys are intimidated by your looks. Some guys think they are not good enough to date a special girl like you. Just be patient and stop trying so hard. Before you know it you will be dating a great guy that admires you for you.
2006-08-27 03:54:08 · answer #6 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can answer this by what you told us. so you have physical attributes that guys might like. there could be a lot of different reasons. why don't you concentrate on improving yourself mentally, spiritually, intellectually, and a guy will suddenly pop into your life.
2006-08-27 03:49:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it could be a couple of things one they could be to young another not sounding rude but do you give it up to them rite away guys dont like that and another if you talk about a relationship boom there gone i hope i helpd some
2006-08-27 03:53:51 · answer #8 · answered by Manda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offence but u sound like a real beotch who only wants a guy for his stuff and wants him to do everything for you. but i could be wrong in which case you just have bad luck with finding ppl so judt keep tryin
2006-08-27 03:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by ACER 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You talk too much and you repeat yourself-----Let the guy do most of the talking. Silence is powerful and men like power
2006-08-27 03:49:03 · answer #10 · answered by somewoman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋