what is there to do when time has'nt healed the pain?

Answer 1

Accept it and move on. Time cant heal everything, but at least you can try to forget and move on with your life.

Answer 2

Oh this makes me feel sad. I believe that if you feel this way, then you have not let eneough time pass by yet for your pain to be mended, maybe not healed but at least lessened. Why dont you go to church. Or pick up a new activity a positive one like working out. Something that will physically drain you that way you think of the pain less. Hope this helps

Answer 3

It takes time, but time in itself doesn't fix anything, its what you do with the time that counts. If you spend that time doing nothing but thinking about what was yesterday that is how you will spend your tomorrows. You have to grieve, but give yourself a limit, after that push yourself forward, no matter how much you don't want to, keep busy doing things that make you happy, at first it will serve no real purpose except distracting your brain, but eventually you will find joy in them again.

Take care of yourself physically, make great meals just for you, don't start eating junk just because its just you eating it, read some great books, listen to great music, DANCE (nobody can be sad when they dance) even if its home by yourself, shop, spend time with friends and family, volunteer in your community with people or dogs if you prefer. Do the things you gave up for your relationship. Soon you will find yourself understanding what went wrong and ready to try again. Good luck, be patient with yourself, and remember it will get better!

Answer 4

Time ALWAYS heals the pain. Sooner or later you are gonna get over the other person and learn to move on. I guess, you just need to decide if you want to move on or not. If you don't, then, there's nothing anyone can do for you. If you do, then, time's on your side.

Answer 5

i know this wont sound positive but i have now been apart from the one man i love now for nine yrs and i still think of him every day... i think they have a point when they say...you have to Want to forget...to move on...because some days are easier for me than others...sometimes i can go a few months and not think about him at all... But other times i think about him constantly.... it is Habit...it has to be BROKEN...you have to WANT it to retrain yourself and your thinking ....i do beleive this even though i choose to hang on doesnt mean you cant let go....i just dont feel pain and suffering when i am hanging on I just know he is the "one" and i loved him enough to let him go....if it is ment to be he will come back...

Answer 6

Go to your friends for comfort and support. Time eventually does heal the pain.

Hugs Mel

Answer 7

then you get busy doing things that help other people. Step outside of your pain.
Keep your mind busy. Find a hobby. go to movies.
And yahoo personals is great for finding someone

Answer 8

must make the mature decision to move on with life. You will never forget, but dwelling on it will make you miserable. Keep you mind on the present and the future. You cannot relive the past or change it. Pray.

Answer 9

you have to help yourself... time alone can't heal the pain if you yourself wouldn't move on.. been there, done that... i realized that it is not time, but myself... no one can help you but you... think positive and go out with your friends, family... enjoy life to the fullest... good luck!!!

Answer 10

Climb a mountain, read a good book, and be good to people. Ah, now THAT'S the meaning of life.