how can you breakup with a guy?

Question

well, i had a very goo relationship with him.. until i found out that hes dating another girl.. how can i breakup with him?

Answer 1

Just be honest .. tell him what you discovered and its not something that you can be apart of. Nor will you allow someone disrespect you in that way .. there will no longer be contact and have a nice life. Just be honest..

Hugs Mel

Answer 2

Looks like you've made up your mind.

If he has anything valuable of yours at his place - collect that first. Don't show any signs of trouble yet. It's much harder to get it after a brakeup.

Then tell him that your relationship with him is over. Make sure you do it in a place when you can just walk away and you don't have to spend an extra munite with him if you don't want to. (Say, doing it on an 5 hour airplane ride would be bad)

There is a wonderful book that's called "How to dump a guy" Not only it tells you how to do it, it also tells you when it's time to brake up.

Answer 3

The best way to break up with someone is sit with them in a public place and tell them the truth. Let them know that found out that he is being unfaithful and you are no longer attracted to him and that you wish them the best of luck with him.

Breakup is never easy, but this is a very mature way of saying good bye. I think this way, he would actually think he missed out on someone special.

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Answer 4

for your situation I think it's very clear. I've broken up once ( actualy not like that, it was peacfully ) just see him once more and say what ever you want say, don't let any thing remain cause if you do , in future you'll regret so bad. after that finish it compeletly. that means no call, no date, no letter, no ...
it's just like addiction, you gotta keep away for a while and as you know it will kill you for some days but after that you will get ride of it.
one more suggestion : try not to think or imagin about any think cause you mind would be your bigest enemy if you do that. all you gotta do is try to live without him and his memory, built a new life.

Answer 5

I pretty much concur with those here. If he's not respectful of you by dating someone else, then don't feel badly for breaking it off. Tell him you know he's dating someone else and that you are leaving for good. Btw, no need for badmouthing him or cursing at him. Christ taught let your yes be yes, let your no be no. Say goodbye, that's it.

That is, if he really is dating someone else. Find this out first, and if he is, leave. No need to meet him to leave, just phone him.

Answer 6

He's dating another girl, and you need closure? I think its case closed. He's already broken up with you. You can't date two people at once. Don't do anything. Stop wasting your time, and move on!

Answer 7

Tell him that you aren't comfortable that he is dating another girl and you thought the two of you were exclusive. Because of that I need to break up with you. Done deal.

Answer 8

If you are 100% sure that he has been dating someone else then just say you are busy everytime he calls, he will soon get the message

Answer 9

before breaking up with him, tell him honestly that you found out he's dating another girl. give him the chance to explain himself before you make the decision to break up with him. after he has explained himself anf you feel that you could not continue yur relationship with him, that's the time that you make a decision to break up with him. take your time before making a decision and make sure that you are ready fo rthe consequences of your decision.

good luck and god speed!!

Answer 10

Sounds like he is already gone. Break up must have happened while you eyes were closed to what was going on around you.