hey people,
ive been through so many rejections.
recently, i gave my number to this girl.
she was 3 years older than me. when we were out together on our first outing, i was so happy to be with her, although she was with her friends. I got really jealous of me being around her friends as they are guys, and they like really good friends of hers for over 3-10 years. Theyre even smart asses who got themselves into business schools and commando military force. I kept my cool while i was with them.
She was persistantly looking at me in the eyes like as though she wants me to say something to her. I knew it was gonna be right for the both of us. She even said i was more mature than her and her friends. They were even talking and talking and talking like uncontrollable monkeys to the point they even debate on the smallest and lamest issue. When it was to leave, i went home with her. I asked her, she said she cant. She has a boyfriend. My heart shattered into pieces.
2006-08-26 19:33:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
once again, ive been rejected in 3 years of my life in asking a girl. I told her how bad i feel, and she understood me, I feel like a complete loser right now. I asked her why would you even bother to talk to a stranger like this. She told me, well youre younger than me. Shes 19, im 16
well i thought that was crap, in 11 years to come, shell be 30, ill be 27. SUUUURREEEE she can use the same damn reason againnnn..... YOURE YOUNGER THAN ME.
im just freaking pissed, i dont know people. How can i move on and find another girl. All i keep getting are rejections. Ive been through long friendships, love at first sight kinda thing and being the rushy lovely guy.
Everything just wont work out. I used to believe in love so much. Now, i feel..lost.
help me please..
2006-08-26 19:38:00 · update #1
dont let it bring u down keep trying
2006-08-26 19:54:48 · answer #1 · answered by nogoodname90 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that you were rejected again. There are many other girls out there. She probably doesn't deserve you. Maybe if you can't move on, give it sometime and she may break up with her boyfriend. Be her friend at that point. On the other hand, she said no, so don't waste your time on her. Your heart is now free to like/love someone else. Cheer up, get back to the real world, and start looking for someone else. If you need to, cry for 5 minutes. After that no more crying about her ever. Then move on. Good luck.
2006-08-27 02:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by joe19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you don't want to hear it...but you are still very young. And so is she for that matter. You have much to learn..and you will in time...about relationships and love. You need to be confident in knowing that if you are rejected, this does NOT necessarily mean there is a single thing wrong with you. Don't be in such a rush to fall in love and be in a relationship. Concentrate more on your friends and yourself. When the time is right it will happen. No girl likes a pushy, desperate guy. Be cool about it. If you are interested in a girl let her know, but let her take the initiative to reciprocate. Like I said you will learn and you are still young...just remember to have fun. Don't give up on love yet...you more than likely haven't even experienced all it has to offer yet.
2006-08-27 03:09:46 · answer #3 · answered by DawnMarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know your hurting right now, but I went through the same thing with my son a few years ago, he wanted a irlfriend so bad, He was not the kind of boy that wanted a girl thats been with other guys, he wanted a good girl that was a virgin, I told him he would find her, he just wasen`t ready, and to young, well about 2 or 3 years later he met and fell in love with his now wife, and she was everything he wanted. so do not settle, your young, and its just not time for that yet, BUT when its time you will find her. and it will be the kind of love that last.
2006-08-27 03:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by theladylooking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww, im sorry sweetie. i'll say it, we ladies can be pretty screwed up sometimes but dont let it bring u down. there's plenty of fish in the sea, just gotta wait for the right one to come along. youre still young and have alot to do before u get tied down! enjoy it! meet different people, go through different things, dont let things like that hold u back
2006-08-27 02:42:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should do the opposite of what you would normally do.Don't rush it you are only 16 if some one really likes you just let them talk to you instead of you always making the first move.If it's meant to be you will find her.
2006-08-27 02:53:17 · answer #6 · answered by quietfighter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey be strong ya! you are still young! thank god for each bad experience is what HE gives you to be stronger to handle more difficult paths in life to come! 4get about her, you'll get a much more better gal in time to come! just work hard now and make her regret for not choosing you! hey you gotta show a gal what a real man is and she'll stick to you like super glue.
2006-08-27 03:16:29 · answer #7 · answered by GYY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boo don't give up. I think she is lying about the boyfriend she just didn't want to date you anymore. You are the kind of guy who wears his heart on his sleaves. She wasn't the one and she did you a favor so you want have to waste time with her.
2006-08-27 02:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by Apple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like venting instead of a question?
But I am glad to listen.
CC
2006-08-27 02:37:56 · answer #9 · answered by cheeky chic 379 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why be with someone who gives you mixed signals? you deserve to be in a mature relationship, where the feelings are mutual and where communication is open.
2006-08-27 02:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by CaramelKidsMom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋