OK SO I JUST LEFT MY BF AND WELL HE WAS DRUNK AND I WAS GONNA DRIVE HIM HOME CUZ IM SOBER. WELL HE ASKED ME TO GET HIM SOME FOOD THEN I FORGOT THE HOT SAUCE. WELL HE GOT REAL PISSED OFF BECAUSE I FORGET STUFF ALL THE TIME. AND HE TAKES THAT AS ME NOT CAREING. WELL HIS FRIEND TOOK HIS KEYS AND HE GOT REAL MAD. WE STARTED FIGHTING REAL BAD. AND HE WOULDN'T GET IN THE CAR WITH ME. THEN HIS FRIEND ASKED HIM IF I COULD TAKE HIM HOME AS LONG AS WE DON'T TALK. THEN HE AGREED BUT WE WENT HALF WAY DOWN THE STREET AND THE THREATEND TO JUMP OUT UNLESS I GAVE HIM HIS KEYS. I TOLD HIM NO AND HE GOT SO PISSED OFF, I MEAN I HAVE NEVER SEEN HIM THIS WAY. THEN HE TOOK MY KEYS AND SAID IF HIS WALKING THEN SO AM I. WELL FINALLY HIS FRIEND SAID HE'D TAKE HIM HOME. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. I LOVE HIM SOOOOO MUCH!!!! I CANT LOOSE HIM HE'S EVERYTHING I MEAN IT. I LEFT MOST OF MY FAMILY FOR HIM WAT DO I DO?????
2006-08-26 19:27:02 · 22 answers · asked by gismo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if he has never acted this way beofre than give him some time to cool off. First of all, he is drunk. And when you are drunk you do not act like yourself. Secondly, you were fighting, this also makes a big differances. Two strikes. Durnk and fighting. Give him some time to cool off and odds are he will be fine. Call him in the morning.
2006-08-26 19:31:34 · answer #1 · answered by robyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you will only ever have 1 family but you will always have a range of boyfriends if he is flipping out over hott sauce just think what will happen when something mayjor happend my self personaly you should get out of that relationship that is ur frist waring sign... Dont let something elce happen. Most men get very angry when drinking growing up my father was a drunk and eveytime he drank he would beat my mother and just think is that someone you want to bring children in this world with?
2006-08-27 02:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by typhaniee0027 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey the Key word in this story is the fact that he was drunk , if he still act like this when hes sober than you have problems or if hes always drunk than you should be worried if not, wait until he sobers up and tell him how his actions made you feel if he apoligies than forgive him but if he shows no regret you may need to think about leaving.
p.s. never leave your family for any man!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-27 02:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by ELLE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave and go on. If he can't see what he has sober, he definitely cannot see drunk. What has he given you in this relationship? Has he left family behind? Friends can come and go but family will always be there. At least, that was the way I was brought up.
2006-08-27 02:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by david g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He had no right to treat you that way. If I were you, I would tell him "that if that ever happens again, I'm gone". Stick to your guns. Of course, unless you want to spend the rest of your life with a loser, then stay and let him verbally abuse you ever time he gets drunk
2006-08-27 02:34:32 · answer #5 · answered by irish_yankee51 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry that happens to you sweety! If he is gonna be that way then he really doesn't deserve you. If you left most ofm your family for him he seriously needs to realize that! I don't even know hima nd I'm mad at him. lol. Jeeze... Just let him know what you gave up gor his sorry butt! My goodness... lol... I really hope everything works out between you and him.... but I'm sorry for how this has effected you. I love you... hahaha...
2006-08-27 02:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by katelyn_nmhs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like it could be verbally and phyisally abusive, you'd better be careful. stick up for yourself and dont let anyone talk to or treat you without respect. you are just trying to help him out and if he cant see that then you can do better with someone else who will actually appreciate you for all that you do!
2006-08-27 02:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your bf is a jerk. why would you leave your family for that drunk slob? seriously? Ask your family for forgiveness and go get a real man who deserves you.
2006-08-27 02:31:24 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Presley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is about hot sauce and drinking? Go back to your family.
2006-08-27 02:30:56 · answer #9 · answered by clivencheese 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girly u in fo a heap o trouble. he mean when he be drinkin now, means he beat u later when he be drinkin. Run away as fast and as far as your legs will take u, and don't look back.
2006-08-27 02:33:47 · answer #10 · answered by kram k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋