Does it make me insecure if I'm constantly checking behind my boyfriend to try to catch him cheating? Even if I know that I have a reason, is it still wrong for me to check his cell phone, work pager, etc.? I know that it's wrong, but I've found evidence before although he wouldn't admit to it. It's just something that I can't resist doing. And when I confront him about what I might find, he gets angry (I don't blame him for that). I know that it's not worth all of the worry, but we're expecting a child and I do have hopes that he will do right by us.
2006-08-26 19:13:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, this is totally insecure and wrong, on top of that.
Trust him. Just have faith. I'm sure you'll notice it right away if he cheats. Till then - stop it and trust the guy. Or else - he'll get sick and tired of it and will walk away. It is disrespectful not to trust someone close to you unless you have real reasons.
2006-08-26 19:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have found evidence before then there is reason to worry. He gets mad bacause he is busted. Of course he won't admit it, he is guilty. With a baby on the way you need to watch yourself. Any STD's could harm your unborn baby. You need to worry about you and your baby and think about child support and stuff. Sounds like you are being played and you can do better than that. Is this the kind of influence you want your child to be exposed to? Good luck girl. I will put you and the little one in my prayers.
2006-08-27 02:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by melkhel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm behind you 100% on this one. I did the same thing. Still do. Especially if he goes out with friends, often. And if you're carrying his child, even the more reason to. Let him know you don't want to get hurt.
So if you're insecure...I guess I am too.
I've noticed your questions have been about the same thing in the past month.
If ever you need to vent...just im me: cajuntxkids.
2006-08-27 02:25:19 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Ma'am 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are insecure. It sounds like he is giving you a reason to check his phone. Your bigger problem is that child you are both expecting. Even if you catch him, and you two break up, you are still going to have to co-exist together for the sake of the child. Good luck!!!
2006-08-27 02:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think your wrong because men theses days are like that and you have every right and hes wrong for doing so with the cheating if he really is...be strong for you and the baby and congrad's on the baby
2006-08-27 02:21:31 · answer #5 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋