Should I break up with my boyfriend ? Because im not sure if I really do love him and I dont like saying I love you because i dont really think I love him , yet. I like him and all I just think its werid because I think I might have feelings for someone esle. And like 5 girls at my school hate me because their jealous & alot of people think im a sllut because Im 14 and hes 17 and the ones that dont think im a sllut just think its cool because it means hes more experienced.
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I dont know if the other guy is just a closer guy friend or if I like him..I hang out with him more than my boyfriend we dont necessly have more fun but my boyfriend is a more of a serious lets talk about our feelings and everything and the other guy is my nieghbor and hes way more outgoing / crazy &
2006-08-26 19:06:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
& Ive been told Im more mature than him.
2006-08-26 19:15:01 · update #1
If you are asking us yahoo answer users than yes because you are already doubting how you feel about him and your relationship so you should let him go
2006-08-26 19:09:14 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 14! do you want to marry him? have his children? what do you want with him. dump him. especially if you are questioning your love for him. Don't worry you'll have more boyfriends. you shouldn't be too concerned about your future love life yet, because you are so young. my biggest mistake was dating a guy for 2 years in high school. This is your time to find out what you really like and where you want to be in 10 years. don't let boys ruin your life experience. And if you are afraid of losing your true love forever....its not going to happen. After you graduate you will be surprised on where people you know will pop up? its truly a small world, make the best of it.
2006-08-27 02:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by nicolea0329 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kinda had a similar dilemma where I was not sure but kind loved my man but had a crush on a friend of mine and felt all confused. Only time will tell you need to think carefully and figure out who means more to you, who are you attracted to more, and don't let the mean comments of envious people scare you into leaving your boyfriend because you might regret it if you figure out you love him after you gave him up.
P.S. I am now sure I love my man and never had to cheat to figure that out.
2006-08-27 02:17:27 · answer #3 · answered by Rita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no business being "in love" yet. You're 14. Just hang out, date nice people, have nice friends, and *BE 14!!*
Trust me, someday you'll be looking back on all this teen stuff from a totally different perspective and wondering how it went by so fast.
2006-08-27 02:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by Etiquette Gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're just 14, you don't know what you want now anyway. dump him and have fun while not being exclusive with anybody. "Going Steady" and having a boyfriend may sound cool in Jr High but in reality you should be able to take care of yourself before you consider co-existing with someone who still lives with thier mother.
2006-08-27 02:17:13 · answer #5 · answered by repentant sinner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you date more than one person? You are of the age where you need to date many people so that when the time comes, you are sure who you want to settle down with. Just my .02
2006-08-27 02:11:27 · answer #6 · answered by anny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. it sounds like you already know the answer and just need confirmation
2006-08-27 02:51:39 · answer #7 · answered by theatrevenus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur only young once girl have ur fun but u dont always need sex to hve fun
2006-08-27 02:15:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just way too young
2006-08-27 02:10:31 · answer #9 · answered by xsxsxsx36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES...............BREAK UP!! If you even have to ask then you should no that he's not for you .
2006-08-27 02:11:00 · answer #10 · answered by v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋