2006-08-26 19:02:19 · 8 answers · asked by blondie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The same as it used to be, the last week or so, it's just felt different, like a spark is missing. Any ideas why or how to get that spark back?
2006-08-26 19:06:43 · update #1
The newness could not of worn off, we have been together now for over 5 years.
2006-08-26 19:07:29 · update #2
it might have become too predictable and routine. The spontaneity of the moment and the unexpected need to be reintroduced. Discover each others secret desires and being intimate in new and different places also helps. Candle light, romance, making a date just like it was the first time all can help. However, this requires effort and commitment of both parties.
2006-08-28 21:03:31 · answer #1 · answered by niceguy2night1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long you have been together to answer this. But if you have been together for a while...consider exactly why. I would imagine some kind of stress may make things more distant. If you are worried about being interrupted or something like that, you can imagine that your connection may be different.
It could be because of an argument or a disagreement that is making someone feel bitter.
All I am saying is that you really should talk to your boyfriend about this. Honestly is always the best policy in a relationship. See if there are any problems with him...and if there are problems ony your end be vocal. Good luck.
2006-08-27 02:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a thoughtful but tough question. You may be growing tired of each other or it may be just a temporary thing. Go back to things you both loved, and also ask him intimate questions about his fantasies, then play on them. If you still don't feel the connection after a few more weeks, time to think about moving on to a new relationship.
2006-08-27 02:06:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the newness has worn off.
2006-08-27 02:06:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new man
try looking in New Orleans
2006-08-27 02:06:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same as what?
2006-08-27 02:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, roll over and try the other side!!
2006-08-27 02:06:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE THE CHEMISTRY ISN'T THERE!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-27 02:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by SKYE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋