Why do women lie when saying why they wont go out with a guy? why cant you Biatchs get some fing intestinal fortitude and tell them the real reason? like no your ugly, or no your fat, or no your a gobber or no i just dont plain like you. huh get some guts.
2006-08-26 19:01:06 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They lie because they cannot keep their mouth closed.
2006-08-26 19:19:01 · answer #1 · answered by Tim D 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yikes...a little hostility there. Often there really isn't a good, solid reason that I can tell a guy. It's usually because I personally don't find them attractive for some reason, but I know that it's just me, and another girl might fall head over heels in love with them. That's why I don't usually tell the truth - I don't want them to get hurt and think something is wrong with them. Sometimes, I just don't feel like dating at all. Or maybe I'm interested in someone else, but I don't feel comfortable letting anyone know about it yet. I think most women are just worried that they will hurt they guy's feelings.
2006-08-27 02:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by rita_alabama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are trying to spare the guys feelings, they do not want to malicious or hostile, they also do not want to feel guilty and therefore become hyprocritical. Women might also feel intimidated by the man and are trying NOT to make the man angry by letting him down as gently as she can a self-preservation instinct. The problem is it is an uncomfortable no win situation, even a gentle rejection hurts and upsets the guy and the woman feels guilty for rejecting him without even giving him a chance. Also so woman can tell right away if there is chemistry and if there is not they don't try to nurture an attraction to the guy because they are lazy or the guy does not act in ways that appeal to her enough.
2006-08-27 02:10:15 · answer #3 · answered by Rita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man lie, too, y'know.
As for telling a guy why I won't go out with him, I tell him the truth. But it never seems to work. I'm in a situation with a guy right now who would take "no" for an answer. I told him truthfully, we would not make a perfect fit. We live two different lives, and I'm looking for a certain type of guy, and he wasn't what I was looking for in a boyfriend. He is still bothering me.
So if you want to make a broad statement as such as "why do women lie," my question to you is "why can't men take no for an answer?"
2006-08-27 02:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by i_luv_the_irish23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well If I told a guy that the only reason I wouldn't go out with him, was because they were ugly, then everyone would think i was a cold harded biatch. So women lie, so they don't make they guy feel bad.
2006-08-27 02:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt sound like ur dealing with real women or maybe they just dont like u saying things like intestinal fortitude and think ur boring dont knock em for trying to be nice not all of us are
2006-08-27 02:05:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably the same reason men break up over the phone, or via email/ text messaging. They don't have the guts to say it to your face, and/ or they don't want to hurt the other person's feelings.
2006-08-27 02:05:00 · answer #7 · answered by legallyblond2day 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Laughing...Somebody's gotta ask me out first! I don't have men standing in line so I can't answer your question. I don't make myself approachable to guys that I would say no to. Oh and you couldn't handle this woman anyways, got way more guts than you would know what to do with little man.
2006-08-27 02:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by cat s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boo fuking hoo
2006-08-27 02:04:51 · answer #9 · answered by lindz2480 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it just they dont want to hurt your feeling and other as well. Why do men lie?
2006-08-27 02:05:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋