My bf and I are in a long distance relationship, in 2 different continents and have been doing this for almost 2 yrs now. He's dad is dying and he's very upset. What can I do or say when I'm so far away?
2006-08-26 18:09:28 · 13 answers · asked by Dr_G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow...that's a tough one. See if you could be present with him.Sometimes it is so important to be close to the ones we love at times like this. If you can't try to comfort him. Definitely don't argue with him. Always end the conversation with "I'm always here for you.Call me if you want to talk." Always remind him of how special he is to you and that you would give just about anything to be there.
2006-08-26 18:16:55 · answer #1 · answered by Donna M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About all you can do is comfort him the best way possible. Tell him you wish you were there to be there for him during this time. Let him know his Dad is going to a better place and he won't be in pain any longer.
Really, no talk is as good as a hug and a shoulder for him to lean on right now. If you're not there for him totally during this, he may feel as though you may never be there for him with anything else. So, just do the best you can with the given situation. God bless him and his family.
2006-08-26 18:18:02 · answer #2 · answered by KD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him handwrittewn letters and mail them out each and every day letting him know that you are very sorry for his loss and that you wish you could be there. If you can be there, be there. Lift his spirits with those written words. Put them in perfumed envelopes. Put word of inspiration around the borders. Write from your heart and let him know that your love is true and your heart is with him.
2006-08-26 18:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by tool84u_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fell really sorry 4 u and him...the best thing(to me) would be tot tell him the truth watever u fee...tis is a hard one ireally feel sry 4 yall hope he gets through tis ok
2006-08-26 18:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... if you've stayed together that long, long distance then you shouldn't break it off it'll be that much better when you see each other...and reall the only thing you can do is be there for moral support...it'll mean alot to him if he really loves you...good luck
2006-08-26 18:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well
1.go over there to be there for him.
2.tell him that when ever he needs to talk to someone to call u and u will be ther for him.
just let him know that u care and that ur there for him whenever he needs u there isnt much i can think of.
2006-08-26 18:14:03 · answer #6 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for him. let him know that you care and that you are there any time he needs someone to talk to. don't rush or push him into talking about it just be there when he is ready to talk.
2006-08-26 18:16:31 · answer #7 · answered by kmarkelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 far away.
2006-08-26 18:11:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you feel very bad for him and that you're sorry.
2006-08-26 18:14:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a surprise visit to show that you care. even if its only for one night it will mean a lot to him.
2006-08-26 18:14:43 · answer #10 · answered by outbaksean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋