there is this guy, we will call him bob, well i went out with bob last year, and bob dumped me. then bob asked me out earlier this year in may, and then bob dumped me again in the begining of summer. now bob hates my guts and calls me a b**** and says he never wants to go out with me again, ever. does bob really mean it?? how can i get him to go out with me again or like me???
2006-08-26 18:01:53 · 19 answers · asked by XXpatdXfreakXX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you want "Bob" to be able to treat you this way again? Don't have any contact with the scumbag, since he is obviously feeding off of his ability to hurt you. Don't talk to him at all, and watch, he'll be calling you and coming around in no time. Then you can turn the tables on the little bastard, and let him see how it feels to be used.
2006-08-26 18:12:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! If I may be frank, I'll say that kinda sound desperate 4 attention. Come on girl wat did u do dat made Bob call u a ********* after breaking up wit u twice!! Listen he's not steady, or shall I say his mind is not steady, cos he wants u and then he doesn't! What's p wit dat? if u did something bad, he may have meant it, but if he really cares about u, he'll get over it! If it wasn't a big deal, wat did I mean, then he probably doesn't mean it! well, u can go and apologize if wat u did was bad, but me 4 one, I never apologized 2 a gy even when it's my fault, guys do all the apologizing! u can probably tell him how u feel and ask him if he still has feelings 4 u! But I'll say this, he may not be worth the worrying over, so just get over him please and move on! Someone might get hurt if things move a lil' 222 far! Well dat's how frank I can get unless u want more! Good luck wit trying 2 talk 2 bob!
2006-08-26 18:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by Jetaisnesexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Despite what you think, you DON'T want to go out with Bob again for several reasons.
1) If you go out with him again, he will dump you ... again. He has already proven his track record by doing it twice. I wouldn't suggest doing it again.
2) By calling you nasty names and showing such hatred toward you Bob is showing how little respect he has for you. If you go out with someone who has very little or no respect for you then you will find that he will not treat you how a person should be treated.
I know that is not the answer you are looking for, but Bob is not a fella you should be letting your heart or mind linger on.
2006-08-26 18:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by jane9715 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop saying bob so much and get over him. You can find a better guy than that guy.
2006-08-26 18:05:37 · answer #4 · answered by Curious_Camo_Jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this so calle friend of your bob as you cal him. keeeps bobbing yu around here!! apparentlty this guy is using you did you do the big bang with him in bed here?? if thats the case hes just plain using you for the big bang here move on down that highways of life forget the loserr etc, if you are or like being called a cheap tramp and i suspect the lossrr here has a history of picking up cheapm tramps or easy prey he found it inn you like we say move on downe the highwayy dump this soory-- loserr!!
2006-08-26 18:07:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why waste your time and energy on "Bob" if Bob does not appreciate or enjoy you?
I would not go back...
2006-08-26 18:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by Khalen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT? you shouldn't want to go back out with him if the relationship hasen't worked that many times. you can't keep running back to him. You should find someone who doens't "hate your guts" or call you a B**** all the time. show him you don't need him, and stop going back to him. Either find someone else, or if its the "i love you but i hate you" relationship, then make him work for you. Make him work to get YOU back.
2006-08-26 18:12:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to? He has dumped you (and the last time you guys were together sounds like a sex/rebound thing for him -c'mon...May to June/July?) Stop being a doormat and stop being silly about a man who will call you names and let you feel as if he HATES your guts. Self esteem check, please!
2006-08-26 18:07:49 · answer #8 · answered by tool84u_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if bob keeps dumping you i think that you and bob should stay apart
2006-08-26 18:06:23 · answer #9 · answered by marc130927 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother? He sounds at the best confused and at the worst an absolute jackass. I'm sure there's someone out there for you who won't call you names. Go find him.
2006-08-26 18:05:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋