Im 17 and have lately been fantasising about MUCH older guys. Ive had bf's in their early 20's but these fantasies are like hot looking grey haired 40 or 50 year olds. Not sure what do you people think?? weird sex secret i should have kept??
2006-08-26 17:50:53 · 36 answers · asked by jen_bolten99 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I was the same way when I was younger, but I kept it to myself, and NEVER acted on it. Now that I'm older (35) I can seek out the more distinguished gentlemen and know that I won't be in so much danger and he won't be in trouble. Play it safe, okay?
2006-08-26 17:57:01 · answer #1 · answered by Inquisitive 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like someone has father figure issues...How's your relationship with your father? Does he give you enough attention? If everything's fine on the family front, then I'd say you have nothing to worry about. Fantasy's are completely normal, and they don't even have to be rational. Being as you're 17, and you know how teenagers are just awful, I'd refrain from telling your friends at school about it. But, you have nothing to be ashamed of! It's great that you have the courage to ask about things like this.
2006-08-26 18:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by Chellebelle78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women like older men.It offers them security.Older men are normally settled with good job and can offer better life to a younger woman, so it happens that a younger woman fantasize about older men. Think about it.You want someone who is closer to you, likes the same things as you and you will go through life together and learn from experience together. You don't want someone who is grey and lived through everything you are about to learn.
2006-08-26 18:00:41 · answer #3 · answered by Donna M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to be completly honest. Some people like older people and thats fine everyone has a fantasy. Don't feel like a outcast or something weird
2006-08-26 17:54:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a pretty weird fantasy. I wish I knew a girl who would let me have my way with her!
But anyways, whatever floats your boat. If you're cruel. Do one before the age of consent, that guy will go to jail, and you can go on do some other guy!
2006-08-26 18:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by Redeemer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you going to be one that likes older men. Right now its just a fantasy. Only time will tell once your of age. A lot of famous young woman are attracted to older men. you might be one that prefers older men. You have to wait and see.
2006-08-26 17:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember fantasies are best kept to ones self. You may be just looking for a father figure and you confuse sex with love. as long as you keep it in your head and don't act it out you have nothing to fear. It will go away over time.
2006-08-26 17:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it's a natural fantasy that many young and not so young women have. Don't worry.
Older men have more experience, take their time and now how to treat a woman, hence the attraction.
2006-08-26 18:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by Khalen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on.... Why you prefer 40 or 50 ones.....
You should not have this mind....
Of course it's a bad fantasy....
surfer.paradise
2006-08-26 17:54:17 · answer #9 · answered by surfer.paradise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl those guys are too experienced for you and they probably have sons and doughters your age. You dont want to mess around with that. any older man with a young girl its a perv. Be careful Stick with the young guys, go to school, be successful and when your 30 you can date those guys!
2006-08-26 17:58:10 · answer #10 · answered by skdfjasl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋