Am i bi-sexual?please help me!!!scared here!!!?

Question

To be honest sometimes i find some chicks REALLY atractive.I told my friends and they just laughed about it. Now they just flirt with me making fun of it. They don't do it to hurt me. it's just for fun.But i think i may be bi-sexual.There is nothing wrong with looking at other chicks, but i do it in a different way.More of a sexual desire kind of way(at least that is thus what my friends say).i have bi-sexual friends and i started to like them in a different way.Thats whaen i beagn to think of this possibility.please help me.I have no idea what is the apropiate category,so what the hell.

Answer 1

It doesn't matter.

If someone looks good they look good! Why do they use women models in a womans magazine . . . because we identify with them not that we want sex with them. we want to see how can I do that. we like their hair, eyes, dress or whatever. it.s ok. its natural. you have your own beauty. by seeing pretty females you will find your own beauty. dont worry about it. Yes , there is something sexual about it but you have a choice. I have bi and gay friends and some agree with me, you have a choice. It doesn't matter where the desire starts, it's with whom you chose to finish it. Life's too short to be consumed with worry. Enjoy life.

Answer 2

you reall want help? scared equals concerned. make a choice. to appreciate the physical form is good. to compliment others is good. to project your lust is not. what is it written...self discipline. we ask what the hell, but consider the virgin until the right person is found and all the protocal that it takes to be pure in relating to others. if you surround yourself with bi-sexual decisions of peer pressure then you will fall. run, flee, get out of that trap. when you can look back on years where you said...how about not this year, and you know it was best that you kept yourself from twisted reasons for taking what doesn't belong to you, you'll find that just like the promise to the virgin, you can claim the reward of an unscarred mind. Or, just be like everyone else who layed down and accepted the evil of this society without ever fighting for the facts,truth,and wisdom of the right relationship with each other. I hang around sports guys when i need to remember my potential as a man. I dream and fantasize about ladies when i feel the need to express myself. It is simply the fight of every person to say no because it's wrong vs. right. If there's no absolute right or wrong...then it makes no difference. scar yourself and it will take longer to heal.

Answer 3

Most people fall somewhere in the middle of the continuum of exclusively heterosexual to exclusively homosexual. That means many people have had fantasies or experiences with same sex behavior.

That doesn't mean someone is gay because they have experimented with the same sex or that they are not gay because they have slept with the opposite sex. Being gay or bi is much more than about sex, it's about attraction, connection with and desire for the same gender. Only you can figure this out. Don't let your friends tell you how you feel. And it sounds like you already know anyway.

Answer 4

well to be completly honest thats where i started when i was about 14-15 id look at girls and think more of them then just ohh shes pretty id actully think of them in more of a sexual way and id think oh my god am i gay or bi but then id try to ignore that feeling but it always came right back with differnt girls id see or even with a few friends of mine too then around 16 i acted on one of those thoughts with my best friend that i secertly looked at sexually also and i loved it! now im 24 and have been with my girlfriend for over 2 and a half years now and came out of the closet to everyone when i was about 17 that i am gay... not saying u are gay but ur question just brought me back to those same thoughts and feelings u are having kinda like triggering a memory in a way.. but anywase i dont mean to go on and on but you will know evenually trust me.. just wanted to let u know ur not the only who has ever been confussed about that either

Answer 5

In your mind do you actually carry out the sexual thought? Like you would with a man? Or do you just think a woman looks sexy? I think there's a difference. And if you are bi, so what. You are what you are. But don't let someone, including yourself, convince you that you're bi just because you think a woman looks good or has a sexy butt or something like that.

Answer 6

If you're attracted to the same sex, you're homosexual, and if that's what floats your boat , go for it because if you don't you'll be dealing with pent up emotions that will finally explode one day and hopefully not to the detiment of your well-being.
Now if you like the other sex too, then you are bi-sexual-don't get all stirred up or scared-there are many support groups around to help those such as yourself deal with the flood of emotions involved in finding the real you. Find that you and love it because it's the only one you have!!

Answer 7

It's scary when you first realize you may have feelings for the same sex. You're first reaction is to try to deny it but think about this: when your friends jokingly flirt with you...do you like it?

At night, do you sometimes wonder what it would be like to have a female partner or be with one intimately...If you do you may be bisexual or homosexual.

I don't really belive in "phases" and I don't know if it will pass. You may just choose to dismiss it and lean towards your heterosexual side.

Just do whatever's right for you but be honest with yourself.

Answer 8

Yes you are a lesbian, don't panic though theirs millions just like you and have better relationships than heterosexuals. Try going to bed with a woman, if the sex is better than you get from a man take the obvious, don't tell dad just yet, and your mother...she will understand but at the same time she will want grandchildren.

Answer 9

hey dont stress, whether this is a phase or whether you really are bi, it doesnt matter, there is nothing wrong with that, dont even listen to narrow minded people who tell you otherwise.If you like to look at girls who cares if it makes you happy then nothing else matters, personally i have had the occaisonally attraction of another female and it doesnt bother me, whether or not i am bi doesnt concern me one bit, people are still people no matter what race or sexuality they are and if your friends cant accept you for who you really are maybe they arent worth it.You should chat to some of your bisexual friends about it, it could really help
good luck

Answer 10

Why don't you try it with a girl, and if you feel comfortable then theres ur answer, besides every girl wants to kiss another girl at 1 point in there life, its a fact!