the first time i met him it was because my friend introduced us and he stared at me alot and would ask me if i wanted things and shared with me so we talked for a while then we got together later days from then e called everyday and tried to keep me happy no matter what he would call and say good night we would stay up all night talking on the phone with each other then 1 night he told me he said i love u alot and i want to know do u feel the same way i do i told him the truth i said i really like u but i dont know about love then he told me i still love u nothing can change my mind about the way i feel about u your my everything dont forget that
2006-08-26 17:47:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i read some of the answers. how is it that girls are always looking for that mr. sensitive but when they find him the moment he expreses himself the girl gets freaked out. i dont understand why couldnt he be in love in a first week. i know everyone has that special somone on their mind and if they find him/her they want to hold on to so maybe you are that special someone that your bf has been looking for so therefore he loves you. he doesnt have to be crazy or obsesive....
2006-08-26 18:01:42 · answer #1 · answered by aldi_c3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds sweet. He is moving fast. Then again my fiance told me he loved me since the moment he first met me over four years ago and we are still together and very happy. At first I did not believe him but after four years of him being consistent I now believe him with all my heart. Time will tell but don't rule this guy out yet, keep your guard up though.
2006-08-26 17:52:40 · answer #2 · answered by Rita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, feelings can be really strong, really fast. So he may be sincere. But you are right to be hesitant. If you don't feel the same, and perhaps you never will, you are involved with someone who is jumping in with both feet. He may get hurt in the long run, which is NOT your responsibility, but he may also get possessive and obsessed, which could be a problem. Be very careful with this relationship and watch for warning signs, such as him trying to control you or manipulate you. It may be just fine, but it should be handled carefully.
2006-08-26 17:53:51 · answer #3 · answered by Just Ducky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
It is unlikely that your boyfriend loves you in the true sense of the word. I'm sure he either really likes you or really lusts after you, which can be confused with love at times. Real love, lasting love takes some time to develop. Unless he is a total jerk, and just wants your body, I'm sure he is not lying, he just feels that what he feels is love.
2006-08-26 17:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by Augie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to question him saying he loves you after only a week. I mean, thats not enough time to even get to know someone a little bit. He might be trying to just sweet talk you or he maybe be infatuated with you and is confusing that with love.
2006-08-26 17:50:40 · answer #5 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The EXACT same thing happend to me my friend told me he was going to call and say he loves me but when he called i told him I was doing somethin and hung up, maybe he does i knew my boyfriend meant it cause hes a serious guy.
2006-08-26 18:14:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is wide-spread needless to say! He probable potential it while he says it till he's a participant which I doubt. in case you adult adult males love one yet another, you are able to say that on each occasion! once I went out with a guy, we mentioned i admire you to a minimum of one yet another the 1st day persistently. in case you sense awkward then tell him or basically say i admire you too and pick it. If he grew to become into your chum, he probable is conscious you properly and loves you plenty. Im specific he potential it.
2016-11-05 21:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD TAKE THIS REAL SLOW AND FIRST, BECAUSE
IT SOUND LIKE SOMETHING THAT CAN GET OUT OF HAND
REAL QUICK, HE MAY HAVE STRONG FEELING FOR YOU
BUT TAKE TIME AND GET TO KNOW THIS GUY, AND SEE
HOW IT GOES. FROM THERE. BUT KEEP A OPEN MIND
ABOUT ALL OF IT.
2006-08-26 17:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may love you but stay true to yourself. Don't tell him you love him until you really do. Kudos to you girl for being honest with him!
2006-08-26 17:53:03 · answer #9 · answered by cat s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him that you can't fall in love with someone in a week and that him saying he loves you just shows his ignorance. maybe not quite so harsh, but still...
2006-08-26 17:52:00 · answer #10 · answered by outbaksean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋