Religion wise. Older women and youth pastors that flirt with their youths(eww!) has told me that guys take everything a girl says and does as a sexual invitation. Even if it's a smile, a touch on the shoulder or back, or talking, eye contact whatever is a sexual invitation. Well I'm confused! So I can't have any guy friends just because I'm a girl? I don't want to send the message that I want romance/sex which I never do want that.
2006-08-26 17:35:09 · 7 answers · asked by Meru B 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
well not ALL GUYS consider everything a sexual invitation. and if yuo smile at a guy who's generally a good guy, he's not gonna assume it's a sexual invitation. so in other words, just find the right guy friends who aren't horn dogs. : )
2006-08-26 17:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by redhots_yum 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, sweetie, not all guys will misunderstand that way. If a girl did it a lot, the guy might see it as flirtation, but even that is not the same as sexual invitation. A lot of us guys are gentlemen--you just have to learn to spot which ones we are.
Blessings to you!
2006-08-27 00:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So if they ACT like they think your up to that (or simply ask them) then tell them otherwise.
Trust me hun, I have that problem too, just not at church, but with the boys I go to school with. I tell them up front if they comment on something on that topic what my religious beliefs are and that I am going to stick to them. Makes like a lot easier, and once thats over with I can just hang with the guys. and trust me, guys are some pretty crazy charaters.
2006-08-27 00:42:36 · answer #3 · answered by bmxchic7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sheesh - it means nothing of the sort.
Don't worry - though men sort through everything they see for sexual content, it is not you do the inviting.
2006-08-27 00:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're a teenager, you have to know a guy REALLY well to know whether he has his eye on you for dating/sex. You should probably assume that guys are open to having sex with you. You probably then need to know whether or not you're open to having sex with them.
Some guys are committed to not having casual sex. However, you should assume that, until you know this for certain, that most guys are happy to have sex at the drop of .... uhh.... well you know.
2006-08-27 00:54:09 · answer #5 · answered by NHBaritone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them up front "you aren't getting any" and see what happens.
I like this one girl a lot. I would love to marry her and make babies with her.
She tells me I'm not her type.
I still like being with her.
I'll take her anyway I can get her!
I still can't help but notice how female she is.
How pretty she is.
How sexy she is.
But I keep my place.
Do guys really like you or do they just like what you have.
I like her.
Not her poltiics or religion.
I like her.
I like what God created.
That's good enough.
I can live with that.
Now, just how likeable are YOU!
2006-08-27 01:10:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW sounds like you are in a bad church. They are not all like that.
Don't ask me what ones are better I'm an Atheist.
2006-08-27 00:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by upallnite 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋