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i met my girlfriend last year, about a week after i met her, i met another girl and we slept together, which at the time i thought ok, cause i had just met my now girlfriend and wasnt sure what would happen with us, we live far apart. well, soon after that i decided my girlfriend was the one i wanted and i told the other girl that and have been faithful ever since. now the girl i had a fling with is together with a good friend of mine. she told him and he told some friends of ours in common that i was with his girlfriend before. now i dont know what to do? should i say anything, if so what?

2006-08-26 17:33:56 · 13 answers · asked by john doe 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

13 answers

Why say anything? If your current girlfriend brings it up...fine deal with it then (although it could have been soooo long ago that you dated this other girl that you don't quite remember if it was a week after meeting your current g/f or three weeks before) and unless this other girl or your friends are looking to cause you problems I don't see why it'd come up.

If you feel you need to say something about this other girl...just keep it simple and tell her that you dated this girl for about a week., and that it was nothing serious.

2006-08-26 17:43:33 · answer #1 · answered by Emporer_Smiley 2 · 0 0

YES! Tell her. It is a blessing you are even thinking about telling her because many would not even consider it. Do not let her hear it from someone else first. You should have been told her in all actuality but now is better than never. If you don't this has the possiblity to ruin your relationship. If she loves you and respects you, she will forgive you. She will be hurt and you will have to make it up to her so she can trust you again but it'll be worth it. Your relationship will be stronger. But it takes a while for her to get over it but long as you do the right thing and don't mess up again, everything will be okay. Good luck.

2006-08-26 17:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Don't open your mouth if you don't have to. Wait to see what happens.Once you tell her you gonna end up breaking up with her.She doesn't need to know details, especially of things that happen when the relationship was so fresh. I know it will sound like you are not trustworthy but if she finds out tell her it happen before you hooked up with her because otherwise you'll never hear the end of it. Talking from experience.

2006-08-26 17:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by Donna M 4 · 0 0

its gonna come out any way, so if you really care about your now girlfriend, i say beatem to the punch! tell her now. if you dont then set back and learn a lesson.

2006-08-26 17:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by cycodad69 2 · 0 0

if there's a chance she will find out from someone else, yes. Otherwise you live with the guilt and spare her.

2006-08-26 19:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by smiley 2 · 0 0

Well, because you are worrying about her finding out, it seems like you feel guilty. so yeah tell her, but when you tell her, do it so it seems like the other girl meant nothing.

2006-08-26 17:39:12 · answer #6 · answered by alice c 1 · 0 0

Say it man be a man don't lie true lie is better then no lie at all.

2006-08-26 17:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by Detective Emil 3 · 0 0

I THINK YOU NEED TO TELL HER BEFORE SHE HEARING
FROM SOMEONE ELSE. YOU KNOW THE OLD SONG
I HEARD THROUGH THE GRAPEVINE. HOW MUCH LONGER
WILL YOU BE MINE. SHE WOULD BE VERY HURT IF SHE HEARD THAT WAY.

2006-08-26 17:39:59 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0 0

**** no! What she doesn't know won't hurt her, and if you get busted remember: Deny Deny Deny.

2006-08-26 17:40:31 · answer #9 · answered by evilim 5 · 0 0

Oh yea, now there is a great idea.

2006-08-26 17:42:16 · answer #10 · answered by my92fxrs 1 · 0 0

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