i kinda like this guy who's pretty much the opposite of me. I met him a few days ago when school started. he's in my world history class and he's a sophomore. im a freshman and i want to get to know him better. i just don't know what to talk to him about. i kinda want to ask him to homecoming but im really afraid he'll say no.
2006-08-26 17:24:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You better ask before someone else does & he says yes to them. Always be straight forward dont go thru life afraid, you only have one chance to live it, dont choose to do it thru fear & regret. He might say yes or you might go with another great guy. Have fun
2006-08-27 07:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly, everyone is afraid to ask someone out, thats really common. but since you only met this guy a few days ago, i would give it a little more time before you jump in and ask him to go to homecoming with you. you might bump into him in the hall and strike up a conversation first, ask him how he likes the class you share or something and just chat a bit. if that goes well and you get to where you can easily talk to him, you might tell him you are going after school to get an ice cream or something, whatever you like, and ask if he'd like to go too. or ask if hes online and get his aim or whatnot and just let a relationship grow between you and see how he reacts to you. if he likes you he'll want to talk to you and will seek you out. but if you aren't his type he will probably be polite but not show too much interest. if thats the case, move on, theres more guys out there.
2006-08-27 00:45:33 · answer #2 · answered by mastermindme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out if he's on a sports team or a club. ask him about his schedule and what he likes to do. maybe join the same clubs as him and keep talking to him about what you know best. find out what kinda movies he like, and maybe when you feel comfortable enough, invite him to see it with you and ask if it would be okay if it were the two of you. see how it goes from there. if no, he won't say yes to homecoming. this is the safer way to go about this.
2006-08-27 00:27:11 · answer #3 · answered by Euphony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know him first. Ask him to hang out or go to the movies. Or if that's too much...ask him about the class (homework, teacher, classmates) and throw things in that comes to mind (celeb news, latest gossip). Act like he's a regular friend.
2006-08-27 00:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by Curly Q Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know him a little better before asking him to homecoming and that way you might be able to tell if he likes you.
2006-08-27 00:28:07 · answer #5 · answered by Spirit fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So ask him to lunch first! You treat and get to know him. You might not want to go to homecoming with him afterward and it's just lunch! Then again, it could blossom into something very nice. Take a chance.
2006-08-27 00:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try catching his attention, better yet say hello. It won't hurt he can't hate you. Don't seem too desperate. Its a turn off. Act casual. Flirt but not overboard. Don't studder and just get to know him before you go any further.
2006-08-27 00:29:42 · answer #7 · answered by yorkie lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK this what u could do I'm a freshmen to but how it get go talk to him and ask him question see what he say if u like answer he prob lye ask u out .
2006-08-27 00:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by michael d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a shot ...just tell urself if its met to be then nature will take its course...just go talk to him you never know he might have things to talk about...if there is chemistry ull have no pronblem ......just act as if it is ur everyday friend u always have studff to talk about ask him things about him that you would want to know ....you know the saying opposites attract
2006-08-27 00:29:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask! I've done this a couple times, and i HAVE been turned down before. But at least I knew he wasn't interested and no more time wasted!
2006-08-27 00:27:07 · answer #10 · answered by ikikochan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋