this person i live with (not blood related , ...he is sort of like my stepbrother)..he is driving me crazy and is mean to me...this is not my house so i cant tell him to leave ... what would u do just stay or leave (i'm 17 :(...so most likely i would have to move with my uncle)
n he is 24 ...doesnt have a car....he does have a job but makes fun of me...n always tries to make me upset...i did talk to his dad n my mom but he keeps doing it.....
2006-08-26 17:15:44 · 14 answers · asked by czrl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
thank you all what u guys said means a lot to me thanks for listening....
2006-08-26 17:44:19 · update #1
17 is pretty grown up. I'd sit this guy down (maybe with my parents there) and ask him what his deal is. I'd be very specific in tellling him what he needs to stop and what he needs to do. You should not have to leave your home because some loser 24 yr. old likes to bully kids to make himself feel like less of a loser. I don't know what his problem is, but I would make it less fun for him to terrorize you. You will have to stop playing the victim and start demanding your rights. Good luck. If you can't do any of that, consider having a serious one-to-one with your parents and explain to them that this is so bad that you don't feel like you can live there. Maybe they just don't get how out of hand his behavior is toward you.
2006-08-26 17:21:33 · answer #1 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got a problem and it's not you it's him and how he deals with you. Maybe he secretly likes you and since he's not a blood relative he's kinda waiting to see what happens. Personaly in your shoes I'd move in with another family member and out of that house for a while. He sounds like a horny pain in the butt 20's some thing year old who wants some action from his 18 year old step sister. I'm not trying to sound disgusting or anything but that's how some guys are. GRR. He sounds like a real jerk.
2006-08-26 17:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your time. Get a plan. Save some money. Get a place of your own. In the meantime, with every idiotic thing that comes out of the fockers mouth...know in your head, that when it's all said and done, you will have moved out in a moments notice. You will shock the hell out of him.
2006-08-26 17:21:43 · answer #3 · answered by deytripper_yeah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your uncle is a good person then leave, but if u have to stay, pour ice cold water on ur stepbrother's face when he sleeps
2006-08-26 17:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by madchiman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not the same thing but I work with two people who try all the time to get under my skin the hard thing you need to do is not to let him know he is getting to you insteed of saying or reacting to him when he dose things to get you upset just laugh and walk away try it in for size till you have the money to leave and can afford to
2006-08-26 17:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to ask dad and mom what to do in situation with him. If they talk with him and doesn't work - move to your uncle.
Do not be afraid - speak up is your life.
2006-08-26 17:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about your dad? tell ur stepbro to get a life! when he makes fun of you, just tell him that he's a big fat loser who cant drive,so what right has he bloody have to make fun of u?
2006-08-26 17:20:35 · answer #7 · answered by gweneth lynn paltfeir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hold out until you're 18 if you have no place else to go.
2006-08-26 17:21:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes like a "big-brother"... girls have been suffering w/ it for centuries. just tell him to f*** off & walk away- the less reaction you give him, the better
2006-08-26 17:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest you leave the house Asap people who do that are prone to VIOLENCE!
2006-08-26 17:22:22 · answer #10 · answered by x_cybernet_x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋