I dumped a guy a while back. I had to because things were very bad. I changed my number and everything. He saw me at work and asked me to call him. It has been 4 weeks. I havent called him yet. Well, I saw him at work and he was nice. But he didnt ask me to call him. He was just simple and nice. Didnt say much. But wasnt acting distant. I want to call him and try to talk and discuss things, but I feel like he might reject me. I have had so much stuff going on. I just lost my brother, Im trying to get everyhting gathered to go to school, Im working, and stressing at the same time. I really miss this guy, but dont want him to think I am being week. Do you think he wants to get back together when he said call me. I'm afraid he might have another girl and I will get hurt. Should I call or just drop him. My friends say ditch him, but It is easier said than done and I really love him a lot. I'm confused. Please help.
2006-08-26 17:08:43 · 19 answers · asked by mistypisces 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you did dis him, you gave him many signals you were'nt intererested, going as far as changing your number, if that does'nt say it all, what would? Anyway, now he has got the picture that you are not interested, so he's being cool, so now you want him back? this poor man will not know if he is coming or going, it's kind of like playing with his emotions, so if you love him like your saying, take a week to contemplate how you really feel, does your thoughts consist of him many times throughout the day? Is this something you want for your future? What has changed in this relationship to make it worthy of trying for now? If you can answer these questions, then make the call to him and work things out, if you cannot, don't play with this persons emotions, life can be hectic, but it is not a good excuse to treat someone like a faucet, with this on again off again emotion!
wishing you the best!
2006-08-26 17:17:20 · answer #1 · answered by helper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now it sounds like you need to just chill and let things flow. Focusing on a troubled ex is NOT your number one priority. You have had significant trauma and stress, although it still sounds like you have your life somewhat together (more that other people anyway). If you really love each other things will pan out in the future, don't push anything until you have yourself under control.
2006-08-27 00:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by untchble 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, first off, did he treat you badly other than the things that you have said here? If he treated you like dirt then you should probably just move on and leave it alone. Yes, he acted nice. But he is acting on the impulse that you are going to give in and call him. Don't let it happen gurl. Make him work for it.
2006-08-27 00:14:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call him up and just talk to him. The longer you wait, the weirder it will be. And he might be saying call me, just to call you as a friend, or maybe he still likes you who knows. Anyways, give him a ring, and maybe hang out sometime, and get to know each other better again or something.
2006-08-27 00:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by banana_splitt00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say things were very bad when you were with this person......Don't allow your vulnerability because of all that you are going through now assist you in making a bad decision.....Just hold on, hun, and let the other things simmer down a bit before considering it again...........Take care, dear........
2006-08-27 00:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always nice to have someone in your life to help you get through ruff times so if you feel a certain way about him then you should tell him, first find out if hes involved w. someone else, it could be that he told you to call him because he cares about you and he wanted you to know that you can call him to talk, either way hes showing you that he cares so you should at least give him a call. good luck .
2006-08-27 00:14:05 · answer #6 · answered by Heat seeking missile 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead! he mite have asked you to call him coz he mite wana talk to you and maybe make things a little bit better. Im sure he'd be very understanding.
2006-08-27 00:15:03 · answer #7 · answered by Beni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of us know this guy as well as you...why are you asking other people if you should call him?
I guess if you don't feel comfortable making the decision to call him, the answer is DON'T!
WHY DO *YOU* HAVE TO BE THE ONE TO CALL HIM?
2006-08-27 00:23:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give it a shot. You won't feel any better when you give up on someone you love than when you find out he has a girlfriend or something.
2006-08-27 00:12:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CALL HIM.
He might be dating someone else but that's because you didn't call him. and... you'll never know until you call him but do it soon or he will most definately be in some relationship he can't leave very easily.
2006-08-27 00:12:22 · answer #10 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋