ex girlfriend just told me that she was seeing other people while we dated and she just broke up with a guy she was seeing behind my back and she's 3 months pregnant. things happen and you have to move on. but its something about being cheated on that takes alot out of the things you believed in when you was with the person. especially if you , yourself was honest about everything and never cheated. plus people assume that you go out and look for poor self esteem females and thats why they cheat. you never know how a woman is going to be during the course of the relationship everyone show different faces. but it seems like cheating and not being honest is a easy thing to do for some people. this is the 4th straight time i was cheated on. definitley giving me a different outlook on things and relationships and trust.
just wanted to know ya opinions..........
2006-08-26 17:05:34 · 9 answers · asked by craig h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear, there all all kinds of women out there, and not all of us cheat........My suggestion is this, try to be more choosy about who you date and you will get much farther.......Take care and remember, the things that hurt us only make us stronger........
2006-08-26 17:10:06 · answer #1 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been the cheater in a relationship. I know that it makes everyone involved feel like they are nothing. I also know what it feels like to be cheated on. It will take time but you will move on. Believe it or not it isn't the end of the world as you know it. even tho right now it seems like it might be.
2006-08-27 00:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4th time!!! Yeah, I guess you would be a little gun-shy and leary. Wow. I am not sure what to say other than that I don't think most girlfriends go around cheating on their men. I guess I would take you next relationship a little slow and get to know her values. Really, I just feel bad that she did that to you. I wish you luck.
2006-08-27 00:11:20 · answer #3 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend, you cannot control the behavior of others. Unfortunately, while you are young, you may encounter this many times. Our society does not embrace the same type of morals and dedication of our older generations. Eventually you'll settle down and live happy. Peace
2006-08-27 00:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by willno74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have a bad outlook on relationships.. its hard to trust some one if your trust has already been broken numerous times.
2006-08-27 00:17:19 · answer #5 · answered by Bella N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sucks, but not all girls cheat. just try to choose them more carefully. choose the less hotter ones. maybe that will work. & before you get commited ask about her history with guys. & if she's a virgin or pregnant. k. good luck.
2006-08-27 00:09:55 · answer #6 · answered by yorkie lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you meet a new girl make sure you take things slow and get to know her before starting a relationship.
2006-08-27 00:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by Chickitita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SOUND LIKE A GOOD GUY SO DONT LET THIS WOMEN
OR OTHER DISCOURGE YOU THERE ARE A LOT OF WOMEN THAT WILL NOT CHEATED. SO HANG IN THERE
AND YOU WILL FIND THAT SOMEONE THAT WILL BE THERE
FOR YOU. SHE IS OUT THERE.
2006-08-27 00:12:31 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IDK I had that problem too and I just had to learn how to deal with it! IDK!
2006-08-27 00:11:00 · answer #9 · answered by Alida Paige 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋